Groovedown with Ika: Here we go! Letter of the Night. I am a single woman in my late 20s. For 5 years, I have been dating a married man. Before anyone starts accusing me of being a home wrecker and what-have-you, please listen with an open heart and mind. He told me he was leaving his wife. I believed him. Yes, I was that stupid. But I was also madly in love with him, and I so desperately wanted a life with him. Yes, he is scum for doing this to his wife and kids, and will probably do it to me if we get married, but I didnt care. I. Loved. Him. And at the time, that was all that mattered. A few months ago, I found out his wife gave birth to their third child I was shocked, to say the very least. I thought they were divorcing, and we are on the way to being married. I didnt know they were expecting, because all we ever talked about was our life together. When I asked him, he admitted, and then said, he will start the divorce proceeding after the confinement. At this time, Ive about had enough. I walked. Changed my number. Moved back to my parents place. Went out with my best friends, holidayed with my sister, anything to get him out of my mind. I feel humiliated. Disgusted. Stupid. How could I embarrass my family, especially my mom, who definitely did not bring me up to be the other woman. But he is still on my mind. I know I dont want to go back to him. I know I deserve better. But I cant forget him. I want to. What else can I do? What are your thoughts? #groovedown
Posted on: Wed, 27 Nov 2013 14:03:10 +0000
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