Group Input Requested: Heyyy OMB team!! Please may you post this? First of all, this is so silly, but I was driving home yesterday from the shops, after having a phone call from exN (Ill explain this in the 2nd part of the message) and I saw a car number plate with OMB as the last three letters and I thought that had to be a sign everything is going to be ok! I went all warm and fuzzy knowing OMB is here supporting us all! I know.. Im such a sap lol! The 2nd thing.. I reeeally need advice! ExNs phone call consisted of him asking me if he could take child to Miami next year for summer holiday 2 weeks (we live in UK & child lives with me). He said Even if child isnt allowed to come Im still going so I said no. And he hung up. I knew for the last few weeks he was wanting something and trying to butter me up because it has been very calm and quiet and hes been nice for the last few weeks. Now the storm has come and I have a feeling its going to get nasty because I have told him no. I have to give exN written permission to allow child to go out of country for my concerns of him not bringing child back, hence why we put it in the court order. I fear he is going to take me back to court to get written consent from the judge that he can take child abroad and I want to be proactive about it. I dont have a lawyer, and Im confident I can do it by myself as I have done for the past two years. I have no proof of him threatening to take child out of the country as he used to say it behind closed doors (also with threats of getting child a fake passport so he could do it), but I have told my concerns to the police & judge in previous statements. If this does go to court what can I do/say to the judge to make sure he doesnt allow to take child abroad? Child is 4. The court case has been closed at present, final hearing was in May. Also, I KNOW he will tell child he wanted to take child on holiday but mummy wouldnt let him. How do I explain my reasons to a 4 year old if he asks?! Also, when the time comes for exN to go on his holiday how am I going to explain to child he cant see his dad at the weekend he is supposed to see him? He will be devastated! I know its a long way off, but I think if I can prepare myself now, it might make me feel less stressed at the time. Huge heartfelt thank yous!!
Posted on: Thu, 11 Sep 2014 14:32:22 +0000
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