HELPLINE: MUM TO MUM: Please post only comments that are useful, helpful, constructive and practical My husband had an affair with a German woman and they have a son. My problem is that he has been going to her house alone so many times without telling me. He even bought her the house she lives in without telling me and a car. I live in a rental and he is always late in paying the rent. He pays all her bills and basically covers even her other very personal expenses. Is that right? I do not have children yet with him. Before marriage he lied to me that the woman and the child live abroad in Germany, later on I found out that she lives in the same town with me and thats where he disappears to at times and switches off his phone so I cant reach him. He gets uncomfortable when i ask him questions about finances at times cause so much doesnt add up. I think he still sleeps with her cause why would he hide this from me and go there without my permission and buy her a house. I dont even have a car and he doesnt like bonding with my family but he talks to hers and helps them out when they ask. He even meets with her mother and calls her family that is abroad. Is this right and allowed??? Is it really a marriage if he is lying to me and treating this other woman like his wife and giving her so much more of his time and money than he gives me. Should I stay or just leave him to be and just continue with this woman and I go be alone and start over? I feel like at this point that I am no longer the wife, and if I continue staying He will disrespect me more. I was told she is expecting but I am not sure though to be sincere I would not be shocked because he goes there so much and hides it and does so much for her than me.
Posted on: Tue, 05 Aug 2014 19:00:00 +0000
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