HOW TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP Falling in Love and starting a Relationship is one of sweetest things in the world. Keeping the relationship has proven to be very hard and requires a lot of commitments. Speaking of commitments; many people don’t like commitments so much. That is why there is a rise of the popular independent ladies and single men. However we can’t deny the fact that being in a relationship is sweet. No matter how hard we tend to pretend to be happy being single, deep inside we wish we were in a relationship that is working. Here are some of the tips to help you keep your relationship working: 1. LOVE Love is what brings and keeps you two together therefore relationship and love go hand in hand . It is basically the foundation of a relationship. It is the responsibility of both of you therefore to keep your love burning. Love should be mutual and unconditional. It is important that you are in a relationship with a person you truly love and who truly loves you. Sometimes in your relationship you may feel like love is fading away. It is very important to find out the cause and work out on the solutions. 2. COMMUNICATION Communication is essential in a relationship. Mostly what kills love is the absence of communication. Whenever you feel there is a problem, you should talk to your partner about the problem and find a way to solve it. Asking for your partner’s opinion on an investment you want to undertake for example makes him/ her feel directly involved and so feels a part of you. When in an argument always don’t refer to past mistakes. Solve the matter at hand and in a sober way. When you are mad at each other look for something that will calm you down like watching your favorite movie or go swimming and when you feel you are calm you can now talk to your partner and resolve issues soberly. 3. TRUST Trust is essential for a healthy relationship. A relationship without trust is bound to collapse anytime. As you know trust is never given, it is earned. like a mirror, once broken trust can never be recovered, even if recovered, it can never be the same again. Don’t try to spy on your partner so much, you might end up hurting yourself unnecessarily. 4. UNDERSTANDING You can never find all the qualities you desire for a partner in one person. Appreciate the positive qualities and learn to manage the negative. One can never be perfect but can be the best you can get. Know your partner’s strength and weakness but never take advantage of your partner’s weakness. Help him/ her overcome his/her weakness instead. 5. RESPECT Each one in a relationship need to be respected by their partner. Like Trust, Respect is earned and goes two way. You cannot be respected if you don’t respect. You should learn to respect yourself and others in order to be respected. The way you handle yourself around your partner and others determines whether you get the respect or not. Don’t yell at your partner in public as the words might be damaging and impossible to take back. Respect your partner’s boundaries. There are things that are personal and private even if you are in a relationship. Your partner’s phone for instance is private and personal. Sneaking into your partner’s phone is a sign of disrespect and might bring problems into your relationship. Sometimes what you don’t know doesn’t hurt. 6. FORGIVENESS Like they say man is to error, expect your partner to make mistakes just as you can make mistake. If your partner makes a mistake and sincerely apologizes forgive and forget. Never keep record of mistakes. It ruins your relationship. . . have A Splendid Day
Posted on: Tue, 02 Sep 2014 12:07:04 +0000
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