Happy holidays Zane Please keep me anonymous... So I was dating this guy since August but Ive known him for about 3 years....he used to ask me out for the longest and I always told him No..well before him I ended a bad relationship in the beginning of March so I took the time off to focus on my career and just partying freely with girlfriends with no guys involved..i prayed that I would meet the next guy that would do right by me as I am always truthful and honest...well, he does his own business so he has a lot of clients and some of his female clients be calling him late or his female friends back home would have jokes to put on FB that he should buy this girl this and that they looked cute together...so with that we had an argument and I told him I didnt want to be with him and that when he goes home to visit his momma thats probably who he mess with..he do answer my calls and texts but several times he went home its been an issue only at night time that he dont answer my calls or text so I start tripping saying hes entertaining some hoes..is started dating him because he kept on asking and yes I found some kind of attraction in him and because I felt maybe it was what God sent me so I gave it a chance...i almost left him on thanksgiving because i felt he was bsing me while getting his hair cut when we were at his home town...and then just recently this Christmas he went home for a party and something happened during the party that his brothers and mom were fighting so he called and told me but then i started calling and texting at around 7pm and he didnt answer till almost 10pm so I was in my I dont care anymore feelings and told him I was done with him..i blocked his calls when he started calling and so he said he didnt care anymore...i tried calling him and texting but obviously hes probably tired of me breaking up with him...but its always the fact that I cant get in touch with him...we didnt have Christmas together because his momma already made the plans for the party and I didnt want to leave my momma alone on Christmas...Im not sure why Im really emailing you...i guess just to see your point of view...Im hurt in a way that Im unsure if I was wrong for breaking up with him on Christmas...or if its really me thats hard to trust.... MY RESPONSE: He may or may not have been cheating. He may just have female friends but it does not mean that he is sleeping with them. Either way, I think that you need to take another break from relationships and work on you and your tendency to be insecure. It sounds like you were invited to the party but you decided to spend time with your mother. I dont think he would have invited you if he was going to have another woman present that he is fooling around with. There is no right or wrong in terms of breaking up on Christmas since there is no ideal time to end a relationship. Good luck but your trust issues will probably be present in any situation until you work on self.
Posted on: Sat, 27 Dec 2014 02:11:05 +0000
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