Have you ever heard people say, “we all have secrets and it is healthy to keep certain secrets from your partner”? What if it wasn’t possible to truly keep a secret from your partner? Meaning, you might think that your thoughts or actions are private (because your partner might not consciously know about them), but what if these secrets deeply affect your relationship? Justin and I are exploring the idea of secrets. We are learning that there is no such thing as a secret in relationship. Humans are energetic beings with keen awareness and sensitivity to our environment- especially when it comes to primary relationships. When I have withheld something from Justin, whether he is aware of it consciously or unconsciously, my secret impacts our relationship. The other day, Justin was talking to me about a big business decision. I wanted to be supportive, but on the inside I was focused on something else and not interested in the conversation. A thought flashed through my mind, “Urgh, I am so annoyed! I don’t care about your business stuff right now!” Right after I had that thought, Justin chimed in with, “I don’t feel like you are being very nice right now. I can feel it in your energy, you are not being kind to me.” I was shocked. Is my man telepathic? Did he hear my thoughts? No… he felt my thoughts in the energy between us. Justin and I are learning that all thoughts, feelings, actions, withholds and secrets are palpable in the energy field of relationship. Justin and I have a relationship agreement to be fully revealed and transparent with each other (aka. no secrets, ever). That does not mean that we need to be sharing every little detail of every single day with one another. Instead it means that we share the important stuff, consistently and timely. We believe this is one of the most important agreements to create drama-free, loving, and supportive relationships. Our Invitation: Notice throughout the week if you have any little secrets or withholds between you and your partner. Notice how these secrets impact your relationship (through drama, mistrust, suspicion, insecurities, incessant fears, etc.). Try making a commitment to be fully transparent with each other and notice how your relationship changes. We are on the journey with you, so feel free to share your thoughts and comments at DailyRelationship, facebook/DailyRelationship, and youtube/DailyRelationship. Thank you! - Juna & Justin
Posted on: Sat, 27 Sep 2014 00:25:41 +0000
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