Have you ever wondered why some men abandon their children or even not attached fully to the well being of their families? It may seem that there is no firm answer which crosses your mind why all this happens. I know of a fact and may be if left unchecked will send a man to mistreat his own child; there’s a feeling of fear if you get news that you are about to be in charge of raising another human being life, among the following reasons; Oftentimes Caught Up in Their Immediate Selves In any mans’ mind any addition to the equation translates as chaos resulting to statements like “but I’m working on this” or “not now” Some Me Have Endured Physical and Emotional Abuse This happens that once in their lifetime there was a problem they faced in previous relationships and whether they receive therapy for this or not, they will never be firm/bold enough to believe and trust their ability to not do the same thing to a child of their own. They Were Never Men to Begin With Men naturally are by no means a mythological archetype of human strength and perfection but rather someone who accepts accountability for their actions and owns up to them, no matter what. It isn’t the easiest thing to do and accountability isn’t really being taught too many places nowadays except for may be inside the home. A man at first when he was getting to a certain deal never meant the results afterwards! Not In Love with a Certain Woman It happens a man can be a father but there’s a strong possibility he may not want a particular woman (the one he is impregnated) to be the mother of his child. The relationship might not be the one for him. There might not be a relationship at all and might resent the idea of having wasted his “seed “on this particular woman and now being stuck with her. Thinks He is Not Good Enough It is not my goat to give away any trade secrets here. When being responsible for another you naturally think you should be able to give that child your all especially if you don’t think it happened in your life. If you are struggling to do right by yourself it certainly can cause you doubt your prospective parenting skills. As fathers don’t have the luxury of bonding psychologically with the child in the womb he don’t have the connection that moms’ do during pregnancy. He might convince himself he’ll bring his child more harm than good and decide his unborn little one is better off without him
Posted on: Thu, 17 Jul 2014 08:32:29 +0000
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