Heartbreak isnt like ripping off a bandaid. Even when it happens quickly, and is for the best, it will still bring you pain for long after. Everyone grieves differently, and at their own pace. The important thing is to allow yourself to grieve. Weening yourself from attachment takes time, and some wounds never fully heal. There is nothing wrong with remembering the good times, but dont let that cloud the memory of why a relationship/friendship had to end. After all, sometimes what we are grieving was just an illusion to begin with :-( Blah, had to get that out.
Posted on: Thu, 04 Sep 2014 04:09:43 +0000