Hello. Im an ex-Muslim. Please take 5 minutes of your time to read this. Dear redditor, Im writing this in response to the senseless events of the past 2 days. First, a brief bio: I used to be a Muslim of over 20 years. My parents come from a country where insulting Islam is punishable by flogging, and leaving it is punishable by death. Though always a skeptic at heart, questioning Islam in my country of origin meant facing persecution at best, and the death penalty at worst. Ive seen beheadings, floggings and beatings in the name of protecting the sanctity of Islam. Theyre not impressive in the least, and you dont want any of them to transpire a few feet away from you at an impressionable young age. Ive seen the effects of Islamic fundamentalism first hand, and how extremely effective it is at stifling an entire civilization from developing into a society that favors reason, rationality and the basic, axiomatic right to express your thoughts and ideas freely, **even** if they are perceived to be disrespectful, offensive or tasteless. Through a series of unfortunate events that included loss and bereavement, Ive come to terms with calling myself an atheist. I have an Islamic first name, yet Im as godless as a bagful of decapitated puppies. The reason why its frustratingly hard to come out as an atheist and share my identity with the world is the following: If word goes out and reaches my country of origin that Im an atheist, I would place my family in harms way. The reason for this is that even though Im no longer physically located in the country in question, the government of said country will employ an Italian-mob like strategy wherein they would harass and even harm my family in an attempt to goad me into going back to face the music. In addition, Im not even as vocal a critic of Islam as I used to be, because doing so meant adopting a toxic, neurotic mindset wherein Im constantly looking for things to complain about my former religion, however trivial they may be. Ive found this to be a decidedly substandard approach to living, and that it is far more conducive to my well-being to light my past with a torch and move on with my life, rigorously pursuing my own educational and professional aspirations, Islam-free. In the wake of what happened in France, however, Ill make an exception. I would like to emphasize the following crucial point that is the reason why Im making this post: What the perpetrators of the Charlie Hebdo attack are trying to do is not just stifle freedom of speech, or force an entire continent into a state of terror and trepidation. What they are truly aiming for is far more sinister and diabolical: They want to make it infinitely, ineffably and irrevocably harder for both Muslims *and* ex-Muslims to go about their lives peacefully in the countries that they have immigrated to. They aim to foster an environment that has its foundations firmly rooted in fear and confusion. They hope that such an environment will make for fertile ground for prejudice, bigotry and intolerance to manifest and fester. Muslims of all walks of life, be they Middle-Eastern, South-East Asian or otherwise, are deathly afraid of the blowback that they might experience through no fault of their own. I implore you to not give in to the mindset that these fundamentalist thugs want you to succumb to. If you see a girl wearing a hijab, instead of going What the hell is she doing in my country? Why wont she go back?, buy her a cup of coffee. Perhaps a slice of cake. Watch what happens. Do not be surprised if the girl bursts into tears, because your out-of-left-field act of compassion and kindness will be an overwhelming reassurance that she is not subject to misplaced prejudice and unfair bigotry. If the two schmucks who attacked the Charlie Hebdo HQ were subjected to the sonic barrage of a Ramones tune at an early age, Id wager that many lives will have been spared, and that we would all go back to extolling the virtues of Pastafarianism instead. Obviously, its much too late for that. So what am I asking you to do? This is not an appeal to emotion and compassion for the mere sake of being nice to your fellow human being. Rather, Im desperately appealing to reason and civility, concepts that are woefully alien to the perpetrators of the heinous acts of the past 55 hours. Im rather short on time, so please feel free to crosspost this to wherever you deem this to be relevant. Thank you for your time. reddit/r/atheism/comments/2rw5sy/hello_im_an_exmuslim_please_take_5_minutes_of/
Posted on: Sat, 10 Jan 2015 03:18:24 +0000
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