Hello L.D. Pls hide ID. I seem to be having problems with my mom.. I do love her with all my heart but she always does everything to hurt me and bring me down. Ever since we lost dad in 2005, my life has never been the same, its like i lost both parents. As soon as he passed away, shes been dating one married man after another( and you know how its like in small communities where every1 minds every1s business). It even reached an extent where people werent even ashamed of pointing fingers at me as I walked, I even started hiding cos I couldnt take the shame even at sku it was the same). In 2009 after I completed G12 she refused to take me to school cos her then bf said so, I reported her to my Gran aunty and well, she decided to take me to the cheapest college money could buy not thinking of job prospects... When I completed my diploma I tried to get a job bt to no avail. I tried talking to her so that I would atleast get a degree(she can afford that) but her response was that she doesnt have money to waste. So last year after selling some of my electrical gadgets and doing a little business, I finally raised capital to start raring chickens of which she took the money and didnt want to give back for months. Later she did by saying shed help find people to build bt she wud lie abt the cost of some items(at some point I even found out that she even lied abt using abt K1000- I just let go of that). When the building was finally finished, she wanted to start using it for herself, we argued and she cursed me as usual, I didnt mind that. I am now enrolled at the University(distance learning) but the current problem is that she says I am wasting all this money paying for sku wen I will get married, so she has now hijacked my chicken coop and is raring chickens for her bf and I need to use it so that I can pay my tuition fee for next semester....... Right now I am even thinking of moving out but yet again I cant really do that because my source of income is right here. The goodness is that the plot belongs to my late father bt her and the bf have already started making building projects( I am afraid they may try to hijack the only thing my father left for me and my brothers. I know God will see us through and I am lucky that since dad passed away, his sister took them in and they have always stayed there(so they are safe). What can I do? Please help before I loose my sanity
Posted on: Thu, 10 Jul 2014 16:32:07 +0000
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