Hello Zane, I am a 32yr old married woman, i have been with this same man for over about 18yrs an married for13yrs. He has had two kids outside of us. I meet this guy about 5yrs ago an i have have had an affair with this guy that has been going on four five years. I really love this man with all my heart, i dont get to spend time with the other man, my husband has not worked since we have been together,but this other man treats me so wonderful no matter what i do are say. This other man wants me to leave an be with him what to do. MY RESPONSE: You have been with your husband since 14 and he has never worked but had enough time and energy to impregnate other women twice THAT YOU KNOW OF. You have been having an affair for five years and you are torn about what to do. Seriously, I have to question the character of both of these men. Most men wont be a sideline brother for five years, love or no love. But the marriage should have been over years ago. Like a lot of women, you are making this about an either/or proposition. Instead of simply walking away and spending even five seconds alone, you dont want to leave one situation unless you can fall right into the next one. In this case, you have been in the next one for half a decade. My suggestion is that you take a long, hard look at what you are doing and stop allowing fear of loneliness to overtake your common sense. Your character also has to come into question, by the way. You do not get a pass because of your husbands behavior and lack of ambition. You could have left him prior to being with this other man. Do what makes sense to you because I have a feeling that taking the time out to get to love and know yourself is not going to be an option. Good luck.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Nov 2014 16:59:03 +0000
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