Hi Zane! Dedicated fan here, just hoping that you get the chance to read this and post this for other opinions..... Recently, me and a ex separated and im having troubles letting go. Im so hurt by what he had done but in the time where things were going well, I had grew to know a person I loved deeply and thought I could trust. Shortly after we met, I became pregnant. He had lost his job and it devastated him. He became almost desperate for money. He and his sons mom began to start back sleeping with each other and she was able to support him financially. Mind you, I was pregnant so I couldnt work. Me and her had our run ins after I gave birth and didnt knew fighting her wouldnt solve anything so I walked away the one time we couldve both gotten seriously hurt. Taxes came,...and he did nothing for me or my kids(also had a two year old, not his). After he got his money,..we began to have major problems and we split up officially. Dna test came back that my newborn wasnt his and he attempted to have my girls taken away from me by the state(didnt work by the way). He divulged almost everything I had ever told him...even my secrets. I honestly believe that I had met someone I could spend my life with..but he chose the woman with the money instead. I loved him with all my heart when everything was once almost perfect..and im having trouble letting go. He and her are still together and look very happy...what should I do?!?! Signed,..Trouble Letting Go MY RESPONSE: You kind of glossed over the fact that your newborn child turned out not to be his. That is probably a huge factor if he was led to believe during your pregnancy that he was the father. I am going to assume that he was aware that there was another possibility all along. Why would you expect him to give you his tax money for children that do not belong to him when he has a biological son. You need to realize that he may very well be happy with her, or he may be using her. Bottom line: he has no desire to be with you or he would be there, struggling down in the trenches with you and your kids. It does not matter why he chose her, only that he did, and she was there before you and she is the mother of his child. This man tried to have your children removed from your home. You need to leave him alone and move on before he really shows up and shows out. There is nothing to keep the two of you connected. Do the best you can raising your kids and try to get their biological fathers to step up to the plate. This man owes you nothing. Good luck.
Posted on: Tue, 22 Jul 2014 05:46:23 +0000
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