Hi Zane. First of all I love your work! The books you write can really stir up some things if you know what I mean... Anyways if possible could I remain anonymous. So heres the thing. I met my husband from an online dating website. He and I talked nonstop on the phone for a week before we actually decided to meet face to face. I felt a strong connection to him on the phone and I hope it wouldnt fade when I met him and it only grew stronger. As the months passed he stated that he was in love and even tho I wasnt I couldnt hurt him by revealing it. As time went on he asked me to marry him. I agreed and things moved so fast! Next thing I know Im standing before a judge marrying a man that I didnt love. Its been over a year now and even tho I dont love him like I know I should I do care a lot for him. I know Im in love but I dont know if its to the point where he is. So heres the problem. He has a daughter from a previous relationship. This girl is the devil reincarnated! She does whatever she can to make our lives a living hell. The only thing that calms her down is when he talks to her and go along with the idea that he loves her and eventually he will leave me to be with her. Now its to the point where he use to do it all in front of me but now everything is a big secret. I feel as if theres a lot more going on than the agreement we had in the beginning to just keep her happy so he can see his daughter and she can stop the harassment. Every time I approach him about it he gets all upset and say you know why Im doing it. Heres the kicker he said if he was to cheat it would be with her. Even tho he claims he has never. My question is should I just walk away and cut my loses because deep down I feel there is more to the whole conversation that those two are having or should I wait it out and see how it all plays out? I am not in the business of being a fool for a man and I really think hes trying to play the both of us.. MY RESPONSE: So you are married to a man that you are not really feeling who is telling his childs mother that he is going to eventually leave you to be with her so he can see his daughter? Hmm, yeah, they are knocking boots behind your back. FOR SURE. You are in the business of being a fool for a man if you cook him some ribs and mac and cheese for dinner today and then crawl into bed with him tonight. He is not trying to play the both of you. He is playing the both of you.
Posted on: Sun, 04 May 2014 16:19:36 +0000
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