Hi Zane. Please dont share my info. Not that you do. I also dont mind if you post I would like others in put. I follow your pages and read your advice for others daily. I am 30 years old married and have two children. I will make this quick. My oldest is from a previous relationship that was abusive and toxic so i left before he was born. His father has never done anything for him in his 6 years of life. My husband has been there and treated him as his own since he was 2. Would have been longer but I waited for them to meet. My problem is my sons grandmother. She has always been in my sons life trying to make up for her son. But always tells my son that my husband is his step dad and will never be his real dad. I continue to tell her not to tell him things like this because it upsets him and her son does nothing he wont even visit him. then I have to explain all over again to him that my husband takes care of him and treats him like a daddy should and thats all that matters. My husband wants to adopt him so that he will have our last name and not feel like he doesnt belong. My question is would I be wrong to limit his grandmothers visits until she can respect my family? I feel like she doesnt get that she is hurting him by telling him these things. She also speaks to her son daily but wont tell him or give me number so I can get him to sign over his rights or at least to sign so I can get my sons passport for us to go on vacation. They are scared I want money but I never ask for money or wanted support. I just want what is best for my son. -------Upset mommy MY RESPONSE: You need to limit the interaction with your child for the time being, up and until she can learn to show some respect for you. I would not allow anyone to continuously upset my child or make suggestive comments to him that I do not want him to hear. The first time would have been the last time in my household. For her to speak to her son daily and realize that he is such an abuser and deadbeat is ridiculous but not all that surprising. Either she is going to be a part of the solution or she is a major part of the problem. Do not allow her to stress you out any further. She has no legal right to see the child and maybe if you cut her off, if she truly loves the child, she may flip out and make her son become a man and seek visitation and pay child support so she can see him. I would cut her off and see what happens. She is only doing it because you keep letting her see her grandchild without consequences for her actions.
Posted on: Sun, 13 Jul 2014 19:15:00 +0000
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