Hi zane. Im sure you get tons of emails. So I hope you read mine. I want to say that I was introduced to your books by a girl I was incarcerated with. I truly enjoyed your books and it helped my time away go by faster. Your a great author. I see that people write you and ask for advice. So if you respond to my question keep me anonymous. I have gotten into a relationship with a guy I have known since I was 12. He got himself into trouble when we were teens and ended up doing 17.5 years in prison. We had a little fling before he went away but nothing serious. But when he came home he looked me up and contacted me and we jumped head first into being together. We both realized that maybe we were meant for each other cuz so many things are good. But before he and I hooked up he was seeing two other girls. Later I find out that he didnt end things with the other girls right away. So he cheated on me. After everything came out in the open. I forgave him. Understanding that hes been gone a long time and we jumped so fast I thought forgiveness and another chance was the right thing to do. Besides. When a girl is throwing coochie at a man whos been gone as long as him hes gonna take it. Anywho. Since being caught up and mending things he has been faithful and I know he has cuz he barely leaves my sight. And our relationship seems to be growing and better than ever. My question is.... How do I forget? How do I regain trust in him completely? It seems no matter how hard he tries to prove himself I still have a constant doubt in my mind. I love him and we are very happy together. I just want to get past his mistakes. Theres more to the story but I gave the shoryest I could. Help. I need some advice. Thanks. MY RESPONSE: There is no simplified method for telling someone how to regain trust that has been lost, and for good reason. In the back of your mind, you know what he is capable of since he has done it. He was able to carry on with two other women right under your nose and act like it was not happening. With that being said, you either have to be serious about giving it a second chance or leave it alone. Only you can make that decision. Different people have varied levels of tolerance. You know yourself better than anyone. Pray on it and do what makes sense. Good luck.
Posted on: Sat, 08 Feb 2014 19:16:03 +0000
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