How To Treat A Girl Well So, you want to know how to treat a girl well? Every girl is different, so not everything you do for one girl will necessarily flatter another. But there are some general things you can do to show a girl that you care. Steps Tips and Warnings 1.Be kind to her . Remember that every human being wants to be appreciated and treated well. The more genuine and specific you are, the better. 2.Remember that no means no If youre doing something that makes her uncomfortable , even something simple like hugging,stop doing it. Ask her why it made her uncomfortable, and try not to make her uncomfortable again - either dont do that thing, or wait until she tells you shes ready but you need to remember that sometimes asking the same thing over and over again can be annoying. 3.Let her talk about herself . If you say you want to get to know her better, and you then take over all the conversations, she will think you are self-centered and not very interested in her after all. 4.Find out about her hobbies by asking questions about the kind of music she likes, sports, movies, family, observing her environment, etc . 5.Compliment her . Say that her hair looks nice or that a shirt looks great on her. Then look in her eyes , and smile . Mean it. Keep it real. Tell her she is pretty. No matter how average she thinks her looks may be, a girl will usually be flattered and pleased to know you think she is attractive. Say Youve got the most beautiful eyes/hair/skin/hands/etc. Ive ever seen, and again, mean it! 6.Maintain good hygiene. Take a shower , put on deodorant, brush your teeth, comb your hair, and shave (if needed) right before you see her—every time. Nothing makes a girl more uncomfortable than body odor, bad breath, or skanky skin. 7.Listen ! You need to be a good listener. That works with most girls; they need someone who will patiently listen and understand them! Make comments that encourage her to provide more detail, especially if its an intense topic. And NEVER abruptly change a topic of discussion unless there is a definitive (and obvious) end to that topic. All too often, boys break away from a conversation abruptly with a new topic that stresses how great or wonderful they are. Dont fall into this trap. If you follow the discussion and really listen, that is when she will really know youre into her. There is a huge difference between hearing and listening, so make sure you are actively listening to her. Dont try to fix it. We all have a tendency to want to fix things. When a girl talks to you about a problem, she more than likely does not want you to help her fix it. She just wants you to acknowledge that she has a problem and empathize. 8.Let her know about things she might be interested in. This will show her you remembered and are thinking about her, and the things she likes. 9.Dont forget her special occasions - especially her birthday . 10.Be truthful. There is no need to lie. Being honest during the dating process means you are being real - being the person she likes and not the person you think shell like. If you find yourself consistently prone to embellishing the truth about yourself, try aiming toward that goal so that it will be the truth. If you find yourself always apologizing or trying to soothe her ruffled feathers, you need to honestly decide whether or not the two of you are a match. Treating a girl well also means recognizing this truth, and telling her in a way that hurts as little as possible — as soon as you know. 11.Make her feel comfortable . Relax and enjoy the time you spend together. Do fun things together. Bike ride, walks, movies, the beach, etc... dont just sit around. Enjoy each others company. 12.Cooperate to understand her point of view if you disagree . Repeat or reflect her feelings so that she knows you really heard her. If it makes sense to you, apologize for your actions that upset her. If you feel you were in the right, however, tell her you didnt realize your actions would hurt her and youre sorry to cause her pain, and that youll have to consider more carefully next time. As mentioned earlier, keep it real. Do not promise never to do it again if you dont intend to keep that promise. If the thing that upsets her is a thing that is fundamental to your personality, you might not be able to change it to a degree that will make her comfortable, and that may mean you will eventually have to part ways. 13.Be real with her, and with yourself. This cannot be stressed enough. If you find yourself saying or doing something and thinking another, step back. Take a look at yourself, and ask yourself what you really want. Share that self with her, because she can and will see that you arent everything that you say and do. That will likely be the end of your relationship. 14.Be a gentleman . Treat her respectfully. Really value her and show her that you do. 15.Be witty and funny. Every girl likes a person who can make them laugh. If she isnt in the mood for doing something, dont force it. Make jokes she understands, so she wouldnt be offended from the joke you meant as a joke. 16.Avoid unfriendly argument . Your goal is to make her feel good. Expressing anger will not help anything in any way. If you disagree, seek to understand her perspective and come to an agreement or fair compromise. Tips Pay careful attention to your manners at all times. 25 Helpful? 2 Hold her hand , especially if you catch her dangling it surreptitiously behind her. A girl loves the togetherness feeling of holding hands, not to mention youre affirming your interest in each other publicly without being crude. In other words, youre proud of her, and a man who can take pride in her will make any girl feel that they are treated well. 31 Helpful? 2 Hold her close to you, and be gentle when its necessary. 32 Helpful? 2 Treat a girl how you want your dad to treat your mom. 32 Helpful? 4 While most young women arent overly analyzing things, once you start dating, shes appraising you: what you do, how you dress, dates you take them on, and lots of other things. Take this into account and dress for the situation, as a good balance will keep her impressed. Theres no point in dressing to impress, then being cheap about where you take her. Its like going to a nice restaurant in a tracksuit. 24 Helpful? 3 Taking her to places that cost lots of money isnt necessary. Take her to the park, maybe buy ice cream on the way; that way you interact with her. If you do go to the movies, plan on going for coffee or dessert after (which means a light dinner, and less expense - bonus!) so that you can talk about what you just saw. 20 Helpful? 2 Remember to always compliment her. Just because youre going out doesnt mean she cant change her mind if she thinks youve forgotten her. 11 Helpful? 1 Arrogant men dont get all the girls, confident guys do, and theres a huge difference. Women are less visually-oriented than men are, so even if youre not the most attractive guy in the world, your confidence will suggest that youre someone worth being with, and your personality will back up that suggestion. Plus, if you are kind and warm when interacting with her and with others, she will see your value without your needing to have movie-star good looks. Just act and dress like a gentleman, and everything should be sweet. 10 Helpful? 1 Put yourself in her place and treat her accordingly. In other words, how would you wish to be treated, if you were her? 10 Helpful? 0 Dont swear excessively or be crude. If you act immaturely, she is less likely to enjoy your company.
Posted on: Fri, 08 Nov 2013 14:39:14 +0000
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