How to Ask a Girl Out Asking a girl for a date should be easy. All you have to do is ask, right? But its not always that simple if youre shy or nervous. At some point though, youre going to have to step up and be bold, or forever be left to wonder what would have happened. Read these guidelines, draw some courage and ask her out. Ad 1 2 3 Gauge her interest. Is she making eye contact with you? Is she smiling, laughing and having a good time talking to you? If so, youre on the right track. What if she keeps looking at you because shes annoyed with you always looking at her? This is not a good sign, and the girl might be a little stressed herself. Make sure to keep your feelings about her private, and not so obvious. Notice how often she touches you. If shes constantly trying to touch your hand or finds excuses to do so, then shes probably interested. However, dont assume that she doesnt like you if she isnt touching you. Likewise, dont start touching her if she isnt making contact with you. This usually scares or intimidates girls. If she wont even look at you, stay calm and find excuses to talk to her. Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold your gaze for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these signs could mean that she likes you. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she doesnt like you, or she does like you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. If shes looking at you in a mean way, check your teeth. If she pulls away quickly, it could mean she is nervous but still likes you. Remember that if you are having a conversation, girls tend to look at your face, so dont immediately assume that she likes you if you are speaking and she is simply listening. If you never talk to the girl, chances are you have a low chance of dating her. Friendships lead to loveship, but non-friendship leads to.... nothing. Method One of Three: Before Your First Contact 1 2 Look directly at her. While talking, make sure to look at her face and specifically her eyes. Pay attention to what she is saying so that when she asks you something or stops talking, you can continue the conversation intelligently. Dont get caught staring at her body (especially her breasts). Very few women like this. If she doesnt look at you or she ignores you, back off, and leave her alone for a little. Some girls dont like looking boys in the eyes and talking. Read her body language. Help her out. Offer to carry something heavy, get her lunch at the office, or do something nice for her. If she refuses, then wait until she really needs help or comforting, like when shes feeling down and having a bad day. Be friendly and outgoing to her. If she walks away quickly, dont follow her or say, What??, just keep on going. Method Two of Three: Interact With Her 1 2 3 4 5 6 Make sure you look and smell nice. You dont need to get decked out in a suit and tie to ask a girl out, but make sure your clothes are clean and well-fit, that youve brushed your teeth and are wearing deodorant. You should never ever wear the same clothes again, like you wear red sweatpants Monday, and then you wear them again on Tuesday. Approach the girl you like. Dont worry about coming up with something overly clever. Simply say Hi or Hey. As the conversation moves forward you can give her a complement or ask her a question. If starting conversations is not your strong point, read these articles: How to Talk to Strangers How to Come Up with Good Conversation Topics Keep the tone casual and fun. Dont make the occasion seem like a big deal. Flirt a little! Relax , crack a joke, and break the touch barrier. When the time is right, ask her for a date. Ask her to go the movies or something else you both would be interested in. You could also invite her out to happy hour at a bar you both enjoy. Try to make it original. You might say: I heard about this movie, _______. What do you think about it? If she says she thinks it looks good, ask her if shed like to go with you to see it. If she asks As in a date? say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves much better than they do the cowardly guys. Another thing you might say while keeping the tone casual is: I was going to check out this art opening on Saturday night. Do you want to go with me? I think it would be fun if we both went together. Be confident. If she questions if youre asking her on a date, say yes. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves. Be prepared for rejection. Keep your cool if she says no, smile and respond gracefully by saying, No problem! Maybe another time. Change the conversation to something else or leave if youd rather not hang around. Act as if you dont need her, because that sometimes will pique the interest of a girl. If she makes a face and yells, Oh my gosh, no way! this means that the girl is grossed out with you. Leave her alone and move on to another girl. Dont get your feelings too hurt though, this will leave you lifeless. Some girls just dont like this kind of stuff. Ad
Posted on: Mon, 01 Sep 2014 11:00:28 +0000
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