How to Have a Long and Happy Relationship This is youreasy universal guideto maintaining a long and happy relationship together with your love. This is about many things--but it is never about being one sided or demanding. Dont allow your self to be a control freakor fearful and paranoid, but be open and cheerful. Its about how the two of you dothisand continue it... Steps 1Choose your partner wisely.Having similar tastes, hobbies, temper and goals in life is very important even though you will be opposite in some nice ways. If you two havedifferentre lationship goals, you 2Be honest about everything always.Even in the smallest matter. Being honest is themostimportan t thing in a relationship. Secrets or dishonesty is like poisonous venom from a deadly snake that will bite 3Never cheat on your partner.Imagine what you would feel if they cheated on you. Would you really want them to feel that way? Could you ruin every month/year youve spent together? Could you break their heart? Keep in 4Be open and informative as much as you can.Privacy is something that couples need to be completely open about and know exactly what the other expects from them and talk about the issues that you might 5Respect the needs of your partner.Keep your wants balanced with theirs. This way no one gets constant advantage. But everyone stays happy. 6Keep their birthday and your anniversary in mind.This is really important! 7If you want to make them happy, do something you know they like, or something they always wanted to do but never could.Dont feel like you need a reason to do something for them, things completely out 8Dont expect, buy or even request valuable gifts.These can really poison a relationship if one person seems to be a gold digger. Discuss before hand with your other on what might be OK to spend without having any ideas of items or prices before hand. Plus, if you really put your mind to it the best gifts come from the heart and dont cost an arm and a leg but possibly even free! 9Spend as much time together as you can, but avoid fusion or confusion of your individual goals with the other persons goals!You will fuse family goals such as for having children together, but not 10Before you become impatient or unreasonable try to run the, Do they deserve my unloading on them? program. No matter what the answer is to that question-- No! Theydont deservea piece of 11In a good relationship very little should be taboo.Simply, if you are both sensible--anyth ing that you think about might be worth talking about with your partner. Yet an extremely talkative person can drive 12Dont despise or be cruel about any mannerisms or habits they have.Dont force them to do or not do anything. If it is too unacceptable to you then you should decide what is right or wrong for yourself. 13Rejecting the insignificant little things that the other does is part of a relationship.Do nt try to change your partner (dont be his parent or psychologist).
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