How to fix your relationship that is going sour Your relationship was the best and considered to be an ideal for other couples to follow. However, things may change and a happy relationship may become a sour relationship. So what do you do when you start getting the signals that your relationship is on its way out? Incidents like lack of communication, physical and emotional abuse are signs of a good relation going sour. In such a case you need to take proactive measures to improve your relationship. Here are a few measures to fix your relationship when things start going bad. Discuss the problem Most partners tend to blame each other when things start to go bad. The sensible thing to do is to sit down with your partner and discuss the why? who? and what? of the problem. Just discussing the problem is not enough, you need to find a solution. Lay down strategies and follow them to prevent the problem from recurring. Accept responsibility Good relationship is not an overnight phenomena. So also for a relationship to turn bad it takes time. When you start sensing that your relationship is starting to go bad, there must be a problem. Both the partners need to assess for themselves what they may have done wrong in the relationship. If the assessment is done together that each can take responsibily for their wrong action and work out a strategy to improve the relationship. Make new rules for the relationship If things are going bad then its time to evaluate and make new rules to improve the relationship. The new rules should be based on the reasons that caused the problem in the first place. While making new rules issues like lack of communication, physical and emotional satisfaction or disagreements need to be addressed. Relevant measures need to be adopted, based on the cause. Rekindle your love with things you did while dating Take cue from your dating days to rekindle love in your relationship. Go out for dinner, take short holidays or weekend breaks together to bring a spark in your relationship. Just try and see, your relationship will become like when it started, with lots of spark. Relationships go through ups and downs. Its on the partners to bring back the relationship to its healthy form again. Try out the above tips to fix your relationship and live happily ever after.
Posted on: Thu, 01 Jan 2015 19:19:30 +0000
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