How to manage conflicts in relationship: Separate the person from the issue,Speak in a tone of voice lower than your partner, When two people are shouting because they want to emphasise their opinions regarding an issue, in many instances no one hears the other. In some other instances the conversation can escalate due to the intensity of the conversation. It is nice to speak in a tone of voice lower then the other person as this tends to de-escalate the tension in the conversation,Clarify your expectations , some people assume that others can read their minds. I have learnt that I will clarify what my expectation is and not assume that my wife can read my mind or she automatically can know what I am thinking of. This erases any room for miscommunication,Do not compare your spouse with another. Have you had a misunderstanding with your spouse and you begin to say things like “You are very different from your mother”? or “Why are you not like my father?” Not only is that very disrespectful, it is wrong.Everyone is unique in his/her way,Listen more than you talk ,This one is a tough one for me,Sometimes during an argument, while I am pretending to be listening… Iam actually building up my points to blast back instead of listening to her, See the best in each other! .This can be quite difficult especially after a heated argument, Be the first to apologise! – This point can be very difficult to implement especially when you are not at fault, but it can be the miracle pill to diffuse the tension and restore the broken relationship back together. Stay within the boundaries of the issue – Do not add previously unresolved issues to the conversation. please take note of this and mdn too.Get a quick resolution of the issue. Do not feel bad for having opposite opinions,Watch the content of your words,Do not let the sun go down on your anger and Pray for your spouse everytime to God to soften his or her mind and lead you through it all......i don talk my own .......
Posted on: Sun, 14 Sep 2014 16:14:41 +0000
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