I am a 22 years old lady married to a 25 years old man.we only lived 9months and now l am now 2months living with my parents but i m pregnant for him. We are married because we love each other and i believed and felt we could make a happy family but instead i had the most challenging and miserable life ever. My husband was bossy(treated me like a child) he would make every decision and regardless of my opinion he;d would go ahead with it. Even sometimes when i asked for money he would just look at me and say nothing. My problem lies here: i am a graduate but he does not want to me to work just no reason. I sum-times thought it was because i had higher qualifications. I told his parents and went as far as a family meeting but all he would say was if want to work i should go back to my parents. He had a cafe but he did not want me to use the knowledge i had to help it grow he would use the money as he pleases. He only had temporary jobs which were not profitable for the family. So i had to be home doing nothing. Again, he believed in traditional doctors and i believe in holy water but he would force me to switch to his believes but i refused to. We again had to seat in family meeting and all he said was if i want to use water i should go back to my parents because his doctor said it will destroy his medicines. And i ended living with my parents because kicked me out with this pregnancy he said he will never take any responsibility of and the baby. I feel so guilty getting married and feel confused as to how am i going to raise the baby with no job and worse part is non of my parents is working. I never planned this in my life but here i am today feeling so worthless. Please advise me of how to get back to myself.
Posted on: Tue, 19 Nov 2013 04:39:36 +0000
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