I am one among those people who dont like bringing their sproblem to social network but i think i have to keep that mentaslity aside and do the needful because i have seen a lot of people going home with reasonable advices here. Iam a lady of 40yrs and i have being married to my husband for the past 16years. Our plan when we got maried was to have just 3 children(2girls and one boy) then we stop there but it never worked as planned because now i have six children and they are all female. This issue is now a great problem for me as my mother inlaw would not stop blaming me for having all female children. I had my last girl in August last year, when the news got to my husband people in the village, they told him to to take another wife but he refused saying Im not barren that the case would have been different if i was barren. Now the atmosphere is becoming really hot on my side as my husband refuse to take another wife. His mother said i bewitched his son not to see another woman his sisrer are even the worst i cant talk to them, others said i used charm. There is no kind of insult i havent received from them because of this. I know have done my best by always praying and being a good wife to my husband, i have gone to different house of prayers in search of solution but atlast the result comes out the way it use to be. In order for peace to reign in the family i pleaded with my husband to take a second wife but he said he dont know how to go about it, that i should choose the wife by myself so there will be no problem when she moves in with us. It was a hard tax for me but what will i do? Now I am thinking of bringing in the 20yrs old daughter of my best friend as my co-wife but am not really comfortable with this.Am actually doing this just for the sake of peace but am afraid it is not going to end fine. Should i go on with my plan or leave my husband to die without an heir? Because i am not ready to bear more children again and my husband is not ready to take the girl his people found for her to marry. Please just an advice.Thanks Please Note: He is the only son of his old parents. Submitted By Nkechinyere Obiefuna
Posted on: Mon, 02 Jun 2014 15:55:57 +0000