I dont speak to my biological family anymore. I used to hold grudges but its not about grudges anymore. Some people have to cut their the family off, because family is nothing but a Pandoras box full of negative energy and ancestral wrongdoing to them. Sometimes someone will mention my family to me, and I will think about them, but I have no desire to be around them, visit them, or even talk to them. Thats why it is very important to establish relationships with your love ones while you have a chance, because one day those people are going to grow and if you want them to be in your life you need to make sure that your a flower that belongs in their garden and vice versa. As for me, I have no desire to let those people back in my life, not because I necessarily hate them, but because we dont have anything to build a relationship on. the moral of the story is dont treat the people that you love like s***. some people would take a rigid ideological approach to what I just said and say that I am wrong, but this philosophy is neither wrong or unhealthy. whats unhealthy is holding on to negative energy. what is unhealthy is keeping people in your life that have a negative outlook on your positivity.
Posted on: Wed, 26 Mar 2014 17:04:26 +0000