I had once fallen so hard and was at the point were I would of down anything to fix the relationship but it was too late so mybe next time around I can use this : If you had only let your love flow, instead of fearing that someone loves you as much as yourself...these were my goals I had written out for us to create our beautiful family : Settling fights the right way: When you feel anger, avoid saying or yelling words you cant take back, instead have a planned agreement that you each will back away. The importance of spending time together: Make time for each other. With busy schedules we often forget to relax and enjoy others. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. Ignoring someone, often hurts more than angry words! Carve out special time for just the two of you once a week. This does not mean getting high and sitting there :p. Help each other grow to our fullest: Having an open appreciation for your significant other leads to a productive, fulfilling and peaceful union. Cheer for their victories. Celebrate their accomplishments, and encourage their goals and ambitions! Challenge them to be the best they can be. Live in integrity: Trust in each other and know you haven’t been used or taken advantage of, it creates inner peace and security. Lies fester, but the truth heals or prevents trouble. Live daily with fairness, integrity and reliability. Always be loyal and devoted: True love and real friendship aren’t about being inseparable. Love is about two people being true to each other even when they are separated. When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option, but a priority. Loyalty is everything. Always love and respect each other as individuals: Our first and last love is self-love. Don’t rely on your significant other, or anyone else, for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can’t love and respect yourself, no one else will be able to either. Always being there for the good and bad: Be there through the good, bad, happy, and sad times too. Trust that you can count on each other, and be available not only when it’s convenient, but when its needed most. Acknowledge communication and always listen: No one is a mind-reader so your partner wont be able to figure out how you’re feeling. Be specific and clear with yourself on what you want and make an effort to discover what your partner’s needs are. Turn all neg into positive: Problems in a relationship can be broken down into numbers. If youre both honest with each other and within yourselves, logically look at the negatives and calmly list them. Work together as a team to tackle each negative, one by one. Working on thoughtfulness
Posted on: Mon, 02 Dec 2013 17:22:59 +0000
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