I had to re-share this in response to someone who THINKS they know the truth about my Aunt Helens Care and the people who TRULY LOVE her! It seems that this may be the only way that Facebook will accept my very (extremely) long comment for responding to what she mistakenly BELIEVES to be the truth! God knows the truth! And so do I (we)! Zerita Woody Stacie Woody Rita Woody Sandy Almond Judy Youngs Woody Devin Woody Orma Jones Feel free to also share if you desire to. The following is my response to a certain deceived and falsely manipulated individual. Let us pray for all who are involved with, or affected by, these lies and injustices: Ann Leathers: I have been to see her personally; and Im sorry to say that you could not be further from the truth regarding our entire familys (and our friends) utmost love, care, and respect for my Aunt Helen. No one, I repeat, NOT ANYONE even remotely near to this side of Helens family would EVER do her any harm; and would NEVER take anything from her! We ALL desire absolutely nothing less than the very best care, love, and good health for our beloved family member you know as Helen Starlin! In fact, Ive seen an awful lot of good and bad from where I have been, what I have been through, and what I have experienced. The Lord God as my witness, you should believe and trust me that there is ONLY good; and good which is much greater than most; directed towards Helen from all of us over here. The bad; as easily identified from all I have previously seen and experienced, and better still, as Gods Spirit of discernment reveals to me; is all coming from places, or people, that are not at all affiliated with this side of Helens family, or our (her) friends either. I will not name any names or accuse anyone; even if such an action would be justified; because God tells me to judge not, that ye be not judged (Matthew 7:1). Besides that, it simply is not my style, or my desire, to attack or assassinate another persons (or a group of peoples) character. I will just express that, sadly, you are the one who is being deceived about us and our beloved Helens care. NOBODY took ANY pictures away from Helen. I took a photograph with my cell phone OF one of her pictures (the old family photo of her with her parents and all of her sisters when they were young) to be shared on Facebook, and to be used at Helens sisters (Orma Joness) wedding anniversary in Texas about a month ago. As far as the Brother accused of stealing from Helen to take me out to eat goes; that is simply a ridiculous, untrue, and vulgar accusation! This Brother in question; who was so wrongfully, easily, and conveniently condemned, or locked down under the guillotine by some hardened-heart-of-stone individuals; lives so morally upright and in line with Gods principles, that his genuinely loving, moral, and God-abiding heart becomes so easily and completely convicted by himself, even if he ONLY HEARS SOMEONE ELSE say a softly spoken MINIMAL swear word; and even if its only heard in a movie or ON TV... let alone any commission by him of a direct sinful action!!! He simply WOULD NOT EVER steal anything from anyone!!! He would feel condemned to death and hell-fire by such a sinful act!!! In fact, this amazing Christian Brother epitomizes the exemplary example of moral conduct that we should all adhere to!! Yeah, his heart was broken by this accusation; and mine was too!! He was only honoring Helens wishes after his several attempts of refusing the money that she kept INSISTING that he took for his troubles, his cab fare, and the chicken-with-all-the-trimmings lunch (one of Helens favorite meals) that he bought and brought with him that day to be shared with Helen; his Sister in Christ which HE LOVES so very much! I also went to the care center at this time to visit my beloved Aunt Helen and give this (mine and Helens) beloved Brother a ride home so he would not have to take another cab ride. When I directly asked Helen about this money SHE INSISTED on giving him; Helen told me: I expect people to do as I desire them to do!... I expect them to do what pleases me! And paying for our lunch, and a portion of his cab fare to get here, is what pleases me!... So dont argue with me! These words of Helens were as close to verbatim as I can remember. And I have an excellent memory! Trust me!... We both would have much rather seen to it that she kept her money, as we consistently tried to get her to do... But SHE would NOT have it any other way! She just kept saying this is what would make her happy. So, we reluctantly honored her wishes. Taking me to dinner was definitely NOT this Brothers excuse for accepting the money Helen so adamantly wanted to give him. His ONLY DESIRE was to BLESS his beloved sister Helen with a visit, and one of her favorite meals for lunch; and do all of this entirely on his own dime/dollar(s). But Helen insisted on blessing him with some money in appreciation for what this Brother did for her, even though he DID NOT EXPECT OR WANT anything in return! Therefore, this GOOD BROTHER; who wasnt expecting anything; decided to pay forward the unexpected and insisted blessing received from Helen (in appreciation of his blessing to her), by blessing me with a meal for blessing him with a ride home... It was as simple as that! This brother and I believe; as most other people of faith (like Helen) also do; that WE are blessed TO BE a blessing TO OTHERS! That is EXACTLY what was going on here that day! The blessings were going around full circle!... The initial blessing; which originated by this GOOD Brother; continued forward both by Helen and the ride home I provided. Ultimately, the blessing circle was also then completed through this GOOD brother... He completed the circle by blessing me with dinner for his ride home by forwarding the blessing he received from Helen for blessing her. Neither of us expected or wanted anything in return for what we were doing purely out of the goodness of our hearts, and in service to the ministries of Christ. If only the whole world would follow suit, then we all could truly live within utopian societies. That is the ABSOLUTE TRUTH of what happened that day! Such a SAD and MANIPULATED story it turned into!!! Furthermore, the reasoning behind why the TRUTH of these events turned so UGLY and UNTRUE is far beyond my wildest imagination!!! Again, what you may THINK or BELIEVE are the facts, just simply are NOT the facts at all! IN FACT, the interpretation of events you were told, received, or accepted as true, are extremely incorrect!!! On to the next issue... If Helen gets upset after we visit; its because she does not ever want us to leave. She actually cries sometimes; and almost cries all the other times when we get ready to leave from visiting her. Its almost as if she acts like she is in a prison and cannot wait, or doesnt know, when or if she ever will see us again. And I DO know what these behaviors and feelings look and feel like. It practically makes me cry as well every time I (we) go to leave her. Oh, and this assumed so-called care center does NOT take very good care of our beloved Helen either! Besides preparing meals, I havent witnessed any proof of what else they are doing for her (or for the other residents for that matter); or what they should be getting paid for! Actually, in the rather brief few times I visited her, I believe more was done for her by me, (not even to mention what the rest of our family and friends have done for her during their more frequent visits), than what this so-called care center does for her in the course of a week or a month; besides preparing meals for her and the rest of the group that is. Again, this is SO VERY SAD! :-( Now, on to the next... Granted, it IS true that Helens mind has been getting worse. But she still remembers much of when and who visits her; as well as what these visitors often do for her that she needs done which the care center tends to neglect. Im wondering, do you know or realize what some of the worst parts of these issues are Ann Leathers?... Besides the suffering that our beloved Helen is going through that is! It begins with this: We are all SUPPOSED to be on the same team!!! And not just because we are all part of Helens family; but also because we all love her, regardless of the extent to which each individual does actually love her. Also, it is a biblical truth for ALL of us to love EVERYONE, and care for ANY of those in need; or those who cannot take proper care of themselves; and to do all of this as if we were serving Christ Himself and His ministries. Instead and sadly however; a bunch of hatred, lies, and opposition has surfaced like a poisonous creature; or the devil himself. The devil IS, at the very least, the father of all lies according to the Bible. Therefore, I Will be bold enough to say: If ANYTHING AT ALL that I say here in these comments is a lie, may God strike me dead and condemn me to hell at this very moment. But, I am not at all worried!... Because I am confident IN and live BY the TRUTH!... ALWAYS! Here is another ABSOLUTE TRUTH!... My dear mother ALWAYS HAS provided; and ALWAYS WILL provide (if she will continue to be allowed to); the VERY BEST of CARE to her sister Helen than ANY OTHER loved one, family member, friend, or foe alive!... THATS THE TRUTH!!! If you dont believe me, you may ask anyone who KNOWS the TRUTH!! Pray to GOD and ask HIM!! He will confirm this TRUTH!! You know, it really does grieve my (all of our) heart(s) to see such offensive, hurtful, and contemptuous warring and/or false accusations going on between loved ones, friends, and family members! This should grieve your heart as well! Actually, it would be absolutely terrific if everyone DID check that care centers surveillance cameras or recorded videos! Some ACTUAL and UNDENIABLE TRUTHS may just finally be revealed! But, I wouldnt be at all surprised if this care center does NOT have any, or at least any working, surveillance cameras. They probably cant or wont produce any videos so that their neglect and inappropriate care cannot be proven either. Nevertheless, whether or not anybody else does finally SEE, or come to KNOW, the TRUTH as we do; I promise you this... GOD SEES and KNOWS ALL!!! And I can guarantee you that He stands with us... on the side of ABSOLUTE TRUTH and HIS humble service; which serves all of Gods people (Helen in this case) according Gods will, Gods code of moral conduct, His biblical principles, and His compassionate, empathic, and genuine love. I pray for Helen daily; as also our falsely accused Brother does; and practically everyone else on this side of Helens family. Apparently, I (we) need to start adding a few others, who are close to Helen, to these prayer lists of ours. My hope is this: Maybe these comments and the additional prayers will help to soften some hearts; and encourage ALL of Helens loved ones to begin acting like loved ones again; and put an end, once and for all, to the warring and conflict directed towards people who ABSOLUTELY DO HAVE Helens VERY BEST interests at heart!! This type of behavior is SO VERY SAD and UNACCEPTABLE!!!!! It really does BREAK... better... CRUSH... better still... COMPLETELY SHATTER the hearts all of us who TRULY DO LOVE HELEN WITH EVERY PIECE OF OUR SHATTERED HEARTS!! I will pray for you as well Ann Leathers. I will pray that God grant you the eyes, and/or fill you with His Spirit of Discernment, to fully SEE and KNOW ALL of the ACTUAL TRUTH! May God bless you, Helen, and ALL of Helens loved ones with the fullness of His love, grace, joy, and heavenly treasure! As the LORD GOD KNOWS; I do NOT wish to harm, complain, accuse, offend, blame, shame, judge, be disrespectful, hurtful, hateful, or unloving towards anyone in anyway whatsoever. Its Gods job to judge!... It is our duty, and my desire, to love EVERYONE regardless of ANY of the circumstances. I just felt like you needed to be told the TRUTH. I hope and pray all of this is well received by you; and EVERYONE ELSE; for the BENEFIT and UTMOST LOVING CARE that Helen can possibly receive; as well as for Gods greater good and the fulfillment of His purposes to prevail. Please help with these tragic and unjust atrocities! I beg of you! God and I love you all! O:) Now that I have spoken the TRUTH, I will simply entrust these issues to the mighty hand of God. His purpose WILL prevail; one way or another; in this life or the next! Love will always be stronger and more powerful than hate. In fact, LOVE is the ONLY WAY! He who does not love does not know God, for GOD IS LOVE (1 John 4:8). Therefore, LOVE WILL ALWAYS OVERCOME AND DEFEAT any hate that exists; one way or another! Thank you for listening.
Posted on: Thu, 11 Sep 2014 15:45:12 +0000
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