I hate being lied to. Especially when its someone I care about. How can you possibly have a healthy genuine relationship (of any sort) when someone lies and keeps things from you?... I am a genuine and honest person and I expect the same in return. I can pretend and act like nothing happened.., and it doesnt bother me if it will keep the peace, but Im not dumb, deaf or blind.I usually put TOO MUCH faith and trust in people... but there is no way I can fully trust people who have lied to me and continue to lie to me. I wish people would stop with the lying, period. Theres no reason for it. Anyway...I just need to vent and get things off My chest. That is how I deal with My problems. I know this will be read and talked about like a lot of things I post on here. Ive said it before and Ill say it again... I am Very good at reading people and I know when my posts have been read. Ive posted these things not just to vent and get it out (which is extremely therapeutic to me) but it is the ONLY way for me to be heard without being interrupted, talked over, screamed at/disrespected ect... Because Ive come to the realization that most people dont know how to express themselves properly. If I try to address a situation and discuss things with someone directly, Even over the pettiest, minute things. They tend to lash out with the intent to hurt and embarrass for no good reason.. (which is probably why some people have said/implied that I am a shit starter?). I can assure you, My intention is NEVER to start shit with anyone. I dont like arguing or fighting or being at odds with people at all. If it were up upto me, everyone would be friends and all get along! Things would always be peacful and everyone would be kind and respectful to one another. So this is the only way I can speak freely and hopefully be understood. Ive always felt that its so much better to be open, honest and speak freely about problems than hold them in. Ive kept my thoughts and feelings about issues and certain people bottled up before, thinking things would pass and hopefully get better.. but when a problem continues, things just build up and fester over time, which only leads to me openly crying at work and having emotional/nervous breakdowns. I know people are talking about me, slandering and lying about me (not to be directed at one person). Being sent out to pass by my desk and check on me.. watch what Im doing/following me to the bathroom ect. Yes its annoying and the fact that Im not trusted or respected is very hurtful when Ive given so many years of service (15 to be exact) and proven myself to be an honest and good person. Why management goes to My peers to talk shit about me, Ill never know. That just isnt right. Maybe because the people who claim that I am such a horrible person, are not very good people themselves..(as well as the people who listen to them).Ive caught them in lies as well on several occasions. Anyway, people need to know, I can be sweet and as loving as can be, but if you lie to me or about me, slander and disrespect me on an ongoing basis, you can bet that I will have little to no respect for you. & I am someone that loves everyone until they f**k with me and try to hurt me. I deserve and need to be respected, and see a shred of humanity and compassion in you. If I were treated right, and people wouldnt act like kids, (and again.. none of this is directed to any one person).. it would make the workplace so much more pleasant and enjoyable. If peoples feelings and lives were taken into consideration, If they werent so exhausted because of the unreasonable ridiculous schedule, and certain people werent trying to strike fear into their employees and do things to antagonize them every chance they get to get a reaction.. I think it would completely alter the mindset of everyone and in turn make them more productive. The needs of the business are important, but the needs of the people should matter as well.
Posted on: Thu, 10 Jul 2014 02:36:27 +0000
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