I have already shared this story with a few people. . .This morning I seen a mother and daughter that I hadnt seen in a while on the bus. They get on and say hi, but then follow it up by asking me if I had any children yet. . . .The daughter then follows it up by asking if I considered adoption. I replied no, I am not ready for that step. After a few moments of awkward silence I thought these ladies dont realize that I am divorced. So I brought it up and said he is a con-artist. The mother then asked me, you did know? I thought, but did not say, con means good liar. I just said people tried warning me, but I was in love and did not see it. I know these ladies mean well but who asks someone about babies, that they dont know well and two do they not know the definition of con? People are funny creators. Divorce has taught me a lot. I have learned to speak up for myself, lies unravel and people all have open mouth insert syndrome. I speak up for myself more than ever personally and professionally. I want to tell Raul I know about all the lies he has ever told me and that I forgive him. I want him to know that I know he used me, but I forgive him. Oh yeah I know he had a kid with the girl hes with already. I hopes he steps up for his child in a way he never did for me or himself. Thirdly I want to say I am divorced yet happily single waiting for the one God has made me for. So please no more spouse questions. This has happened more than once since my divorce.
Posted on: Tue, 04 Nov 2014 01:20:29 +0000
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