I have counseled women, listen to womens stories, and prayed for them too! Its a great joy and honor that GOD chose me to be a vessel that HE pours love, counsel, non-judgment attitude through. In so counseling women, theres a prevailing pattern I see that breaks my heart (men do this too) and that is they dont allow themselves time to heal from painful breakups before that enter another relationship. If we do not take the time to examine ourselves, weed out the persistent patterns of behaviors, examine our past histories with relationships, we are destined to repeat history. we end of doing the same things over and over again, and the only thing different is a new face! Too many women (and men) are afraid of being alone. Being alone is NOT the same thing as being lonely. If youre afraid of being with YOU how can you realistically expect anyone else to REALLY be with YOU?! Do YOU even KNOW who you really are? Most of us live behind a mask and have done so for years until we really have NO clue as to who we a really are! Take time to feel the pain, hurt, betray, the infidelity, etc., get professional counseling (if necessary), examine yourself. Ask your self so deep questions? Pray ask God to show you WHY you keep attracting the wrong men in your life? Why you keep experiencing what you call rejection. Ask WHY do I keep attracting abuser, insecure and controlling men into my life. You will only attract who YOU are on the inside! YOU have to prepare for what youre asking GOD for! Get to KNOW YOU!!! Establish a strong foundation with GOD FIRST and allow HIM to build YOU!!! That old junk must die...unless a seed fall to the ground and die, it abides alone. All the junk thats been put in must now come out or else you will continue to attract stinking mess into your life!
Posted on: Tue, 01 Apr 2014 21:49:49 +0000
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