I have had it...Im so tired of people defending people who are in the wrong. You wouldnt want someone to lie, betray, cheat & deceive you but you sure support someone else when they do it. Im not perfect by any means Ive done my share of dirt, but enough is enough. There is no reason for me to be talked to like Im nothing just so you can impress someone else. If that person cant take you as you are flaws and all they dont need you, and you dont have to make me the vilian just to get close to them. I will tell the truth and shame the devil and I keep proof of everything just in case someone doubts me. Ive done more than I shouldve for you and this is how you repay me? Im not begging for you to be in my life but I am asking for respect & honesty. Do what makes you happy but dont try to make me miserable in the process. Just because you are a male that doesnt make you a man. To all the real women who have sent me screenshots, messaged or called me telling me about my husband trying to get with them, thank you. To all the women who have added me on FB because you wanted to be nosey or messy this one is for you. Before you air my dirt laundry Ill do it myself. 1. My children dont live with me because I moved and I will struggle alone but they wont. I had been coming home every weekend & sending money to them. I love them with all my heart and no one took them away from me. I am now stable enough to get them back. 2. Yes, I am a entertainer at a gentlemens club but I also work for Texas Instruments, I dont do what I want to do I do what I have to do. None of my childrens fathers are on child support, because I shouldnt have to make you take care of your kids. Anytime youd rather chase a woman than your kids weve got a problem. Regardless, Im going to do everything in my power to make sure my girls have a great life. 3. I have herpes, as of April 2012. My husband has apologized several times to me because of it. He may claim he doesnt have it but according to the papers I saw he was never tested for it. Even if he claims he didnt give it to me, he continued to sleep with me. If proof is needed I will gladly post my prescription for Valtrex. OMG should I be ashamed NO, Ive already been down that road. I just want to warn the next woman before you end up hurt like I was. Ladies dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you love will leave you for the one they love. 3. I filed for divorce in 2011 & 2013 but in the mean time my husband Corey and I got back together. In 2012 when paper when he was served papers he would not accept them and would not take the parenting class. I even offered to pay for his class, when I took mine. For a man not to want me, you sure didnt take the steps to end this thing. You were all set to move to Dallas with me, until I found more evidence of your infidelity. Yes, I have been in my feelings and I reach out to you before to reconcile. My bad. I have been a fool in love, and weve all been there. I deserve better than what I have allowed. Ive been called a bad mother but he lives 22 miles from his daughter, and works in the town where she lives and doesnt even come visit her often. Maybe once a month and his other daughter maybe twice a year. 4. I bought that man. When I met him he had nothing. I took his drivers test for him, filled out applications to get him jobs, paid insurance, cellphone bills, etc for this man to keep him happy & home. Everything he has was from me. He cant even write a complete sentence and spell every word right. Ive been his backbone, so ladies you feel in lust with me and his physical appearance. Every female isnt telling you stuff to hurt you, some of us real women are trying to help you. Believe what the man is saying is fine, but only if hes your man and you can prove what hes saying is real. Anyone can delete their call log, text & fb messages but call records dont lie. 4. I allowed this man to physically, mentally & emotional abuse me and in front of my children, because thought I needed him so bad. Im getting stronger daily but he is constantly on my mind, good, bad & ugly. If I dont do anything else before I die, I know Ive told the truth. This is not my sad sorry this is my real life lessons. I dont need anyones sympathy. Calvin J Avery Im sorry to bring you back into this mess but I had to let you know how real I am and I dont care if the fb world knows my flaws to show you. You have a good woman fight for her, I didnt get the chance to have a good man because he was for everybody and still is. Weve all made mistakes but make your wrongs right. Everyone deserves a chance to change, if they want it. Now, Mr. Ray tell these people something they dont already know about me?
Posted on: Sun, 17 Nov 2013 20:49:32 +0000
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