I have to get this off my chest..... I sit and I read peoples post on fb all the time, some are good, some are bad, some are opinions and some are seeking help in their current situation. I have people on my friends list that are married, widowed, engaged, dating and single... I have people who have no children one child to multiple children. I love reading the post daily thats why Im so addicted to fb. .. lol.... hahha... But the one thing that bothers me the most is when someone writes something and other people turn it into something totally off topic and it ends up being a bashing post over and over, then tons of people jump in and go defensive because one person turned a simple statement into something bad toward that person who wrote it. This is a huge pet peeve I have expecially now with me being sick... watching people turn on each other over a simple statement is sad in so many ways... what ever happened to love and support?? What ever happened to being there for friends and family regardless of there choices because even if we didnt agree with what they said we support them and thats all that matters. What ever happened to showing those around us how we feel not just saying it. Actions speak louder than words they always have agreed sadly Im growing to realize that peoples actions show one thing.... how very sad yet are in their lives. I mean how does a comment about being at work turn into a bash about not keeping a job an hour plus away without a car???? I just dont understand how some people can just not love and support another. OK you might not agree with someones choices they make but if you love that person at all you should support them no matter what. Not everything other people do is gonna make us happy but if we love them then we should support them. Life is way way to short not to love and support even if we think it is wrong or if we dont agree, because you never know when something is going to happen to change everything that was normal in your life. I have so many friends that are single mothers and they fight daily to support and care for their children. . Do at times they make bad choices?? Well sure, what parent single or married doesnt make a bad choice here or there??? None of us.... so instead of focusing on the fact that someone is a single parent or not lets just call ourselves parents.. some are lucky and have two and some have to do the job of two themselves. Those that have to do the job of both can make twice the mistakes because they are two parents in one... lets give them a break and show them a little more support than people show. All in all what Im trying to say is that I hope people read this and maybe realize they have been a little to hard on someone they say they love and hopefully they realize that love isnt perfect.... love is kind, understanding, and supportive regardless of the situations... show others what you want shown to you that means if you attack someone expect it to happen back. Give those around you the love and support they deserve and always remember that until you have walked in the shoes of someone else you can never truly understand what they feel or what they have gone through. .... this is the gift of life.... the ability to look beyond and say I wont give in and I wont give up... no matter what other crappy people say about me... I refuse to stop doing all I can do to make my life work. Not everyone will agree nor will they all understand but in the end when the day is over you can look at yourself in the mirror and say I gave this day my all and thats all that matters... People remember life is way to short and it can be taken away just as fast as it is given. Never take for granted what you have and never think that something cant or wont ever happen to you because it can and if you think your untouchable then you wont be able to prepare yourself if it does. Love each other like its your last day and show the respect to each other that you want shown to you.. Im gonna tag some friends that I think this might help... and please no one take offense to what Ive said I didnt write it in a way to try to hurt anyone just hopefully open some eyes to the little things... which could be big things in the end.... if I didnt tag you feel free to share this if you find it helpful.....
Posted on: Sat, 09 Aug 2014 20:38:11 +0000
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