I hear quite often that social media sites are making people more and more rude (both young and old.) Do you feel this is true? I ran across an article entitled 30 Manners Everyone Show Know. What do you feel about the list? Is it a good starting point in helping folks better get along with each other? Im a bit old-fashioned. These rules were a big part of my childhood. Rudeness was not tolerated by my parents. 30 Manners Everyone Should Know (Shared from examiner) #1: When asking for something, say Please. #2: When receiving something, say Thank you. Be especially appreciative and say thank you for any gift you receive. #3: Do not interrupt people who are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency. They will notice you and respond when they are finished talking. #4: If you do need to get somebodys attention right away, the phrase excuse me is the most polite way for you to enter the conversation. #5: When you have any doubt about doing something, ask permission first. It can save you from many hours of grief later. #6: Keep negative opinions to yourself, or between you and your friends, and out of earshot of others. #7: Do not comment on other peoples physical characteristics unless, of course, its to compliment them, which is always welcome. #8: When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are. #9: When you have spent time at a friends house, remember to thank your hosts for having you over and for the good time you had. #10: Knock on closed doors -- and wait to see if theres a response -- before entering. #11: When you make a phone call, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the person you are calling. #12: Use a quiet voice inside, especially in places like restaurants. #13: Never use foul language in front of people if you dont know if it will bother them. #14: Dont call people mean names. #15: Do not make fun of anyone for any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up on someone else is cruel. #16: Even if an event is boring, sit through it quietly and pretend that you are interested. The performers and presenters are doing their best. #17: If you bump into somebody, immediately say Excuse me. #18: Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze, and dont pick your nose in public. #19: As you walk through a door, look to see if you can hold it open for someone else. #20: Help others out when you can. #21: When someone helps you, say thank you. #22: When someone asks you to do something, try to do it without grumbling and with a smile. You have a right to say no, you should be polite and offer a good reason if you do. If someone asks you to do something that feels dangerous or wrong, its okay to say no and not be polite to keep yourself safe. #23: Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask someone to teach you or watch what people you respect do. #24: Keep a napkin on your lap; use it to wipe your mouth when necessary. #25: Dont reach for things at the table; ask to have them passed. #26: Chew with your mouth closed. #27: If you hurt someone, say Im sorry and try to find a way to make it better. #28: Dont hurt people on purpose. #29: Dont use peoples things without permission. #30: Treat others the way youd like to be treated.
Posted on: Sun, 02 Feb 2014 14:59:22 +0000