I just felt the need to share something random from my heart 💙💜... So Ive lived two VERY contrast lives.. I was removed from my mums custody as a baby and placed in the care of my dad, I grew up with very few rules and boundaries but one VERY child like FUN dad.. I lived in a shed, Ive been homeless with two babies, Ive been abused MANY times by numerous guys, I was a teenage mum, I went to school with my baby, Ive lived through a relationship that could seriously be turned into a thriller movie, Ive been a single mum, Ive been a stay at home mum, Ive lived in housing commission growing up, BUT Ive also lived in the contrast.. Ive stuck by my kids when I thought I could take no more, I fought for my life to keep them, I went and got educated to better my self esteem and confidence, Ive completed parenting classes to better my mothering skills, Ive met and mingled with celebrities, Ive eaten at fancy restaurants, Im living in my dream home, Im living with a man who NEVER gets angry at me lol... Ok so you get my drift of contrast lives; please dont look at this as a woe is me pity party post keep reading it has a message lol... So I think its fair to say I can certainly speak from my heart about what makes me feel HAPPY and what doesnt!! The difference between then and now is that back then I was NOT living my truest values but now I am!!! When people criticise me about wanting to work instead of staying at home with my kids, it truly doesnt bother me because I am educated enough to know my TOP 3 values in life and if I live them truthfully in order nothing and nobody can come between me and my true happiness.. You know my sisters love nothing more than staying at home with their kiddies (they LOVE it) so in order to have a balance one works part time and enjoys the other days with her kiddies. The other chooses to be a full time mum. They are both living their highest value (family) so they are truly HAPPY!!! I think if we ALL started to listen to how other mums talk and had a DEEP level understanding of others living their highest values that the judgement wouldnt be so much.. Next time to hear of a working mum complaining about how much she hates working maybe listen to her a little and I bet her value is family and she resents working because it takes her away from her family, on the other hand if you hear a stay at home mum talking negative and not enjoying herself maybe listen because her top value might be success or education and staying at home is not living true to her top values. Today I went back to the office and honestly my top 3 values are 1. Business 2. Health 3. Kids; it doesnt mean my kids are at the bottom of my list, it just means when I nurture my business, health and fitness side I am one SHIT HOT mumma bear... Today I feel INCREDIBLE and I can feel the contrast just in one day!!! I think Ive gone off into a rather long rant lol so god I hope this is making sense. So in a nut shell lets STOP judging each other and listen and support and feel HAPPY for people who love what they do!! DEEP inside we need to listen to our inner selves, LET GO of judgement from others, find and live our TRUE values and find that HAPPY work/life/balance... Yayyyyy girls lets high 5 ALL kinds of mumma bears ✋👍🙌💞💋😍😘🐍🐢🐛🐝🐠🐬🐟🌹🎉🎊🎈
Posted on: Mon, 07 Jul 2014 05:53:22 +0000
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