I just hate it when people think they can cross your boundaries because you fit into some weirdass idea of “open minded” in the heads. That, just because you have been non-judgmental towards their perceived “dark sides” in the past, you are somehow obligated to not judge any behavior they throw at you. Creating a safe space for people is the one life ethic I have adhered to my entire life. But creating a safe space for myself is a whole new skill I am struggling to learn. So regardless of how much I care for such people, I don’t want them in my life anymore. I just got “frigid shamed” by one such person. I just got told that I am refusing someone’s “advances” because I am playing “hard to get”. I find the idea incredibly hilarious. I absolutely waste no time in playing “hard to get” or, as some others put it, “hard to please”, because I don’t believe in denying myself pleasures of any sort (Yes. I want that chocolate bar. NOW.) If your “advances” were wanted, honey, you’d KNOW. But, till then, please read the blatantly written “’NO’ MEANS ‘NO’” on my face. Good bye.
Posted on: Tue, 04 Nov 2014 16:31:24 +0000
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