I know this may be long but we all have mothers that we love. It is a has a special message that is worth hearing. Please read and share. It made me cry, I think it will affect you too. After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you. The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who had been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my 3 children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. Whats wrong, are you well? she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you, I responded. Just the two of us. She though t about it for a moment, and then said, I would like that very much. That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up. I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angels. I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, she said, as she got into the car. They cant wait to hear about our evening. We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. It was I who used to have t o read the menu when you were small, she said. Then its time that you relax and let me return the favor, I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation-nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each others life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, Ill go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you. I agreed. How was your dinner date? asked my wife when I got home. Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined, I answered. A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didnt have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place where mother a nd I had dined. An attached note said: I paid this bill in advance. I wasnt sure that I could be there; but nevertheless I paid for two plates one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son. At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time, I love you, and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off until some other time. Somebody said it takes about 6 weeks to get back to normal after youve had a baby . . Somebody doesnt know that once youre a mother, normal is history. Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct. . . Somebody never took a 3-year-old shopping. Somebody said being a mother is boring . . . Somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a drivers permit. Somebody said good mothers never raise their voices . . . Somebody never came out the back door just in time to see her child hit a golf ball through the neighbors kitchen window. Somebody said you dont need an education to be a mother . Somebody never helped a 4th grader with his math. Somebody said you cant love the 5th child as much as you love the first . . . Somebody doesnt have 5 children. Somebody said a mother can find all the answers to her child-rearing questions in the books . . . Somebody never had a child stuff beans up his nose or in his ears. Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery. . . Somebody never watched her baby get on the bus for the 1st day of kindergarten . . . or on a plane headed for military boot camp. Somebody said a m other can do her job with her eyes closed and one hand tied behind her back . . Somebody never organized 7 giggling Brownies to sell cookies. Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her child gets married. . Somebody doesnt know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a mothers heartstrings. Somebody said a mothers job is done when her last child leaves home . . Somebody never had grandchildren. Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you dont need to tell her. . Somebody isnt a mother. Pass this along to all the mothers in your life. We should also pass it on to anyone who has ever loved and/or lost a mother.
Posted on: Wed, 27 Nov 2013 03:15:27 +0000
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