I magine you approach the woman of your dreams, and you are now talking to her. In order to pique her interest and make her want to continue to talk to you, you do the following... Do you... - Tell an interesting story that demonstrates higher value... - Do magic tricks like a clown out of a circus... - Fake an interest and ask her to tell her about herself, and pretend to listen attentively... ...and the list goes on... To your dismay she looks over your shoulder constantly, and seems to be excited by things around her (except you). You start to doubt your pickup abilities, and insecurities sneak into your mind. You try your best to maintain her level of interest, but you get hit by her comment, Nice meeting you, but I have to leave. Come on, fess up. We have all been there before. I know I had. When it happened to you, you would have thought to yourself - If only I am able to tell her more interesting stories, then she would have been more interested in me. Yes, this may be true (to a certain extent), but heres what you should know - WHAT you say is less important than HOW you say things. For this reason, you are NOT going to learn pickup lines, interesting conversation pieces and surefire jokes from me. Instead, you are going to discover the ONE secret of captivating women that you may not have heard anywhere else before. By using this technique I am going to share with you, you will be able to make any woman continue to be interested by you - no matter what you say. At school, you have been taught to conclude an idea before you move on to talk about the next. Sure, this is great advice, but only if you want to induce women to sleep. But if you want to be the Don Juan DeMarco and make women fascinated by you, then you have to stop this habit and start using this technique I am going to share with you. The Unfinished Idea Technique - What It Is, And Why It Works An unfinished idea is just what it is described on the can - an idea or story which is unfinished. You start on an interesting story, and instead of finishing it, you start another story. Whenever we come across an unfinished idea, our brain is compelled to seek to resolve it. In the context of attracting women, the unfinished idea forces them to pay close attention to what you say - because her brain wont permit her to do otherwise. Imagine going up to a girl and say, Hi, my name is Owen, and I am an IT administrator. Do you want to know what I did at work today? Chances are that she will have absolutely no interest in what you say - because you did not come across as anyone worth talking to at all. Consider instead telling her, I know something about you, but I cant tell you. This would create some tension in her brain - which could only be resolved by you. Notice that now the power has shifted to YOU . You now control the interaction, and you realize that WHATEVER you tell her (between starting and ending the idea) she will remember. Powerful stuff! How you can use this technique the next time you meet an enchanting stranger When you first meet a woman, do you tell her your name immediately and shake her hand? If so, then chances are that she would forget your name (or anything about you) after she walks away from you. This is what I would say when a woman asks my name - using the Unfinished Idea technique. My dad used to tell me that he originally named me Apollo - after the Greek god of music, healing and the sun. And I said, dad, thats a cool name. Why did you not keep it? And he said, Well, the reason is that our pet gold fish was also called Apollo, and on the day you were born it was gobbled up by our pet cat Zeus. We dont want to be reminded of the dead fish, so we decided to name you Derek instead. Instead of telling her outright my name, I skirted around the topic, and therefore built unresolved tension in her brain. She will unconsciously then tries to resolve this tension, making her addicted to every word that comes out from my mouth. If I had told her that I was called Derek Rake from the start, she would have just judged me as another guy he met at a party somewhere, and moved on. But by using the unfinished idea technique I demonstrated that I had high value, a healthy sense of humor, and was a good storyteller. In short, I came across as attractive.
Posted on: Fri, 02 Jan 2015 12:35:20 +0000
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