I need some advice. I seem to be encountering more and more people who are nasty to me as I try to improve myself for the better. I find that after an encounter with a nasty person I am left drained, hurt, and just an emotional wreck.Mostly because the attack comes at me unprompted and out of left field.I have learned that only hurting people hurt others. I also know that when people are nasty to you it has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you. Even if you deserve someone to be nasty to you because you were nasty to them a truly healthy happy person would not be nasty back. I also know now that no one can make you feel bad, sad and so on. No one can make your emotions change from happy to sad. You allow it. The problem for me is I do not understand how to stop allowing other people to have control over my emotions. I would like to know how to do this without having to become hardened. I would like to be able to look at the person who is being hurtful to me through the eyes of unconditional love and just feel bad for them and not feel bad myself.Any advice?
Posted on: Mon, 13 Oct 2014 12:04:13 +0000
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