I need your help I am a hairdresser of 13 years and I have a very large clientele. I own my own at home buisness. My clients are wonderful to me as I am to them. In the summer I have lots of wedding stuff to do I really dont get invited to much of them at all which let me put this out there that doesnt hurt my feelings for any of you beautiful clients that sees this. I understand its exspensive . We may have a good relationship but I know Im just your hairdresser. I had a big wedding could not invite everyone that I wanted as well . So now I get a client that Ive been doing for 7 years and she invites me to everything and I RSVP to everything. However it is this Saturday she is the only client I have in the morning to do her hair for the shower. I marked off the rest of my day to go to her shower which to do that on a Saturday which is my biggest money making day is pretty big she was surprised when I RSVPd because she knew that so I was giving up a lot of money but I was okay with that cuz I care about her . Then I go to the shower at noon after I do her hair then who can I go home to be alone lol .Thats it the whole day. I have her gift and I was going to do her hair for free. I got invited to go to the raft off. Please tell me what to do the reason Im even constiplating is my own dang therapist told me that I should go lol. Im going through a lot I started my life as a mother and a wife at 22 years old my choice not by accident. Now Im a single mom that runs a business and takes care of my kids and on a daily I struggle to do anything for myself the thingsi get for myself Is a coffee in and brush my teeth and try my best to shower at the end of the night thats all I get. Ive been told by numerous people especially due to breaking up with my boyfriend recently that was also a struggle that I only got to see him every other weekend nights after work when I didnt have my kids. That was the only thing I had to keep me sane and fill the void in my heart. Like I said not only therapist but everyone else has said that I need to go out and have fun and all that I remember is that was like the funnest time of my life when I was younger. Sorry for the long ass post however I needed you to understand everything before you could say what you think is best and if u think Im being selfish or whatever it be I I want you to tell me the truth if you think its selfish but this way you can judge properly and tell me what you think I should do? Thankfully I could still do her hair and give her her gift and give her her hair for free early in the AM then take off to the raft off but I would have to skip the shower .I even thought about paying for my plate its not the wedding its just the shower. Please help . And if most of you feel I should go and I need this what should I say to her the truth shes very understanding but I dont want her to think thats more important to her its more or less whats best for my self right now.
Posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 19:35:52 +0000
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