I want to tell a little story about two pieces of online content that I have read today. The first titled Top 10 Things Men Do To Destroy Their Marriage, appearing on blog/forum HubPages tells men that they risk destroying their marriage if they leave their wife alone in the marriage. Various crimes include Spend long hours at work and a beer afterward with the guys.. It then says Her desire is to spend time with you, the man she loves. To be left alone by her husband causes deep heartache for women. For most women, their largest fears boil down to isolation and deprivation. When she feels abandoned by you, she attacks with hurtful and disrespectful behavior. Her ability to verbally hurt you is her strongest weapon, and she uses it out of fear, trying to get your attention. When a wife begins to nag because you never spend time at home, never hang out, and never engage with the kids, chances are she is feeling abandoned and isolated. When you stop spending time together, the emotional distance between you grows quickly. You can read it here: deborahdemander.hubpages/hub/Top-10-Things-Men-Do-To-Destroy-Their-Marriage The second titled Lonely men lose friends when life gets busy: study, on the Sydney Morning Herald, reports on a study from BeyondBlue and Movember, that tells of depression and lonelineess in men who have families and are working. It says that 61% of men have lost contact with more friends than they would like in the past few years, and that 31% of men dont spend much time talking to friends. You can read it here: brisbanetimes.au/victoria/lonely-men-lose-friends-when-life-gets-busy-study-20141210-1248jq.html Obviously, this is just evidence that there is a lot of crap out there on the internet. And these Top 10 things you should know about relationships type articles are complete scum. It also makes me look at marriage and kids like....yeah, nah. But also it tells us that the pressures that we place on others in life are completely disconnected to what that will have to mean for the other person. We need to be acutely aware and respectful of the needs of others to have their own freedoms, be they colleagues, friends or partners. One of the worst things in life is suffocation through obligation and being forced into making promises - it deprives us of lots.
Posted on: Fri, 12 Dec 2014 02:50:36 +0000
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