IS IT GOD DIGGING OR JUST SETTING A HIGH STANDARD FOR YOURSELF? Truth be told, no one really wants to date a guy who is “broke” & most of us women are attracted by material things like it or not, many gals (me inclusive) refuse to date guys who aren’t financially stable as it eventually get inconvenient for us. For example.A guy who doesn’t own his own house or a guy who doesn’t own a car…It is such a bore for us to constantly sneak into your parents house or go to a lodge each time we need to get laid…yes it used to be exciting back in high school but as you grow older it just becomes a turn off each time you have to take off your high heels at the gate tip toe to your bedroom & being woken up at 5am before everyone gets up & being sneaked out the back door, that kind of makes us ladies feel like low class hookers. Another issue with us ladies who refuse to date guys who do not own cars is cause honestly speaking I don’t want to go out on a date & take a taxi with my man, we can’t even go watch a late night movie, each time we go party we must ask your pal who has a car for this & that…once he decides he wants to go sleep we are forced to go home cause we depend on him for transport. Well these relationships work for some people but they really don’t work for me.This is the part where men ask me “ How about getting your own house & your own car & stop expecting men to cater for everything”. Well I tell them even if I owned my own car & own house I’d still want to be with a guy that makes triple what I earn, see all these “Independent” ladies have it hard, they have this “ I can do it for myself & I don’t need you “ attitude hence most of them are single & not so happy in their relationships. I want a man who can provide for me & his family, every woman wants to be taken care off and spoiled by their men. I need to remember who wears the pants in my house, who pays my bills & who has the last say. Like it or not if a woman makes more money than you do she’ll damn sure remind you of that everyday. For us women My house will remain mine, My car will remain mine…I’ll remind you I bought you those pants It’s my money that pays Your bills etc etc…Hence I say I don’t want to be in a relationship like that I don’t want my man feeling any less of a man cause of his financial status. Believe it or not at this day & age MONEY determines how much respect & power you get from your women or anywhere else you go. I am against women who sit around ” expect men to do everything for them. You must work & be able to buy yourself what you want…you cant be expecting the poor guy to buy you sanitary towels now that’s just pushing it, but one thing we need to get clear, my money is mine but your money is ours!! Still calling me a Gold Digger? Well If I have to put up with your cheating, verbal & emotional abuse, you going out every weekend & demanding I open my legs smelling like a tavern/brothel, depriving me of Orgasms.I think I need to be compensated in some way don’t you think? What better take away my frustrations than maxing out your credit card at a day spar and spoiling myself with a new wardrobe etc etc? Gone are those days when gals used to go to their friends and say “I Quote” :I met a guys by the name of Victor and Damn he is fine…Now it’s: I met a guy buy the name of Victor and he drives a Merc SLK 55 stays in Bassonia Estate and is the MD of so and so Co. As much as guys put us gals in a lot of pressure to look like super models we indirectly put them in the same amount of pressure by expecting them to earn a certain amount of money and own A, B and C. Still calling me a Gold Digger..well tough, whoever said money cannot buy happiness clearly didn’t know where to shop TIPS FOR LADIES: If your man buys you a car/house…Let it be in his name & insist you get power of attorney on it, which means he cannot sell the car/house without your concern but is still liable for all the payments, should he for some reason get bankrupt he is the one to get blacklisted for failing to make the payments the only when it’s paid up get it in your name. If he asks you to move inn with him, rather not sell your apartment but rent it out, should he decide to leave you, you have something to fall back on. And whilst spending all his money save your own so that when he leaves you, you still have enough to keep going to you find your next victim. Well if one is going to be a Gold Digger…what better way than to do it wisely? (Shared By A Lady On The Forum).
Posted on: Thu, 11 Dec 2014 08:29:55 +0000
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