If you are in a marriage/relationship with someone who has experienced a life changing experience that has completely changed their appearance by way of accident or disease, it is HIGHLY IMPERATIVE that you become their #1 support DAILY! Your love for him/her should show up so very strong that they can feel it without words! Imagine waking up everyday of your life as a woman with breasts and your womanhood which you have seen for since a young girl has been taken away. Imagine having arms/legs everyday and they get amputated. Imagine being severely burned in your face and you look and feel like a monster to yourself? Imagine the level of self esteem that is gone with your spouse/partner. As a spouse, you must show up! You are a part of the healing process and you can do as much killing to their spirit than what has already been killed by turning your back showing no support or real care for them. Why finish the job of making them die inside, your job is to help the LIVE mentally, physically and spiritually. They should awake daily smiling even when they are feeling pain because you provide a love that no one else can or will give. You are their #1 and they HAVE to feel that. Honor your vows if you are married and honor your promise to really love if you are not married but have planned to be. I love my wife with or without her breasts because her being alive is more important to me than anything. I am happy to be able to make her feel normal because my behavior is still normal as if Breast Cancer never happened. She can rest on me because I am her #1 and I am her comfort zone so I act accordingly to keep her feeling good letting her know that Maria is still present.
Posted on: Tue, 08 Jul 2014 12:46:00 +0000
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