Im a little upset at the blatant one sidedness of this article. I - TopicsExpress



          

Im a little upset at the blatant one sidedness of this article. I think my wife is more intelligent than I am in many things, and Im more intelligent than she in others. I think that for an article claiming to be really intelligent it is really heavy handed with the over simplification of what makes relationships work, and how people come to find someone they want, or perhaps in some cases choose would be a better word, to spend their lives with. Im once again really annoyed to have to point out the fact that ladies youre not single because youre too smart. Youre single because the men you choose to date are assholes, or your expectations of them are too specific, or you expect your partner to like and appreciate all the same things you do. Some people find that person... some people find someone who has different feelings and ideas of fun, but can coexist in a way that allows you both to feel appreciated. Different strokes for different folks. If you think you are single because youre too smart... likely youre single because youre too arrogant, and people dont like to put up with your too high appreciation of yourself. Not trying to say the entire article is bullshit, but the entire premise is ridiculous and foolish. Men like a woman who can add to the conversation, bring skills to the table, help to make their lives a little more interesting. Some people really enjoy discussing Nietzsche together over a glass of wine on a Tuesday night. Some of us might suggest that the need to mention this philosopher in a casual passing point about your intelligence probably shows that you arent as intelligent as you think you are. I dont understand why long articles like this promoting feminist agendas and belittling the men in our society are so common. If you date ignorant frat boys, theyre going to act like douchebags. If you date intelligent honours students they might not have a lot of time for you, and if you aim middle of the rung, you might find that the guy youre talking to doesnt give a shit about your ideas on Nietzsche... We love smart women, as long as you dont feel the need to talk down to us or belittle us. We love dumb women, as long your interested in something and have some kind of passion. Stop this over simplification of ideas of What men like, Why women are always going to... its bullshit. If you read these articles with the hopes of solving your situation you are doing yourself a tremendous disservice.
Posted on: Thu, 24 Jul 2014 17:47:04 +0000

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