In Response to an Inbox Message: “Thots and Thirsty” (this one’s a little long) Sister, using YOUR terminology- I can’t say this any other way… Ladies like Us don’t speak “Cluck” so talking to a” Chicken” about the way she acts towards a man you’re in a relationship with is out of line for you. It is NOT YOUR place to put a woman in HER place – so, No I have no tactful way to suggest to you of doing this. I do, on the other hand, want to render this thought. In today’s overtly acceptable society Trife has gone to another level, Some are no longer thirsty, but, downright dehydrated. Advice for the day to my sisters: While you are 1 half of a relationship it is important that you both understand that it is the responsibility of you both to address the approaches of the “Relationship Vultures” (Women) and “Competitive Dogs”(Men). Ladies, it is NOT I repeat NOT your job to check a woman comin at your man left, It’s HIS. His respect and loyalty for you and to your relationship should check a chicken in a second (try saying that a couple times) not bring this foolishness back to you for you to “deal with ”. When your man shares this it should be from an informative perspective not an assignment, Remember “Protect”. He should let the clucker know that he is in a relationship with you with no hesitation or implication of open space OR opportunity for her sideways approach (Profess). In Addition he should also let her know that her approach is disrespectful not only to him, but to herself (some, but not all, Men will do this). I actually dated a man that told a young woman that “While I’m flattered that you took the initiative, I’m an old school Man and I don’t like forwardness in a woman, it gives the indication she doesn’t value herself” not only did he nip that in the bud but he gave her something to think about as well. Likewise, You should do the same to Scallywackers coming after you, because lets face it, time Men know some of Us are in relationship they come out of the wood work like roaches lol. Have a conversation with YOUR Guy and get clarity on 1) how he handled the situation 2) that he was giving it to you as an FYI only. However, if he wants you to do something about it….your biggest problem isn’t the chicken clucking. Pray first, let God guide your decisions and move accordingly. EVERY woman deserves a Man that gives her security in knowing SHE is who he wants and puts her first and foremost, PERIOD! LYLAS #LoveYouFirst #SongOfSolomon1:7-10, 6:3 #Proverbs31:25-26,29
Posted on: Tue, 09 Sep 2014 16:08:30 +0000
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