In everyones life, there will be a transition period. Sometimes youll reach a crossroad and have to choose which way to go. These moments in our lives are very sensitive times and we are very reflective. You might not be understood by many because on the outside you might look normal but on the inside there is a war going on. This is where relationships are lost or strengthened. If your partner is not on the same page with you and dosent understand they have to be patient with you during this period, they could lose you. We get to crossroads and transitions in out lives when we are making major decisions or going through a bad patch. Sometimes disaster hits unexpectedly and leaves you in a state of shock. I have realized that at moments like this even those who seemed to be quite strong can go through moments of depression and at that time need more attention than they would usually need. They might not understand their partner not sharing their grief with them at their level. It creates resentment and built up anger that can remain ingrained in the persons life forever. At the same time, when someone shows lots of concern for a person in their low moments, those moments are forever treasured and that could lead to a new and rejuvenated relationship. It could also be a loss of a job, a career change, retirement, or illness. These turns and bends in our lives are turning points and as it might be difficult for someone to voice what they are feeling on the inside, it is my prayer that as a partner you will be sensitive enough to respond appropriately. It might take more patience on your side and a resilient spirit because these turns cause people sometimes to act moody, grouchy, withdrawn and difficult to get along with. These moments do not have a time frame around them but you can choose to ask the Holy Spirit to give you the wisdom on how to go through this time. I dont know why Im even talking about this because I am personally not going through a transition period but I believe the Holy Spirit led me to do this to help some people out there who could have partners who are going through a transition and you will be of great benefit to them if you could understand them and be patient with them. It takes the Grace of God and it takes love but you will come through. God bless you.
Posted on: Mon, 06 Oct 2014 09:01:33 +0000
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