Inbox: Please post sorry this is so long! I am soooo mad right now! My Mother in Law is the selfish person on this earth! She lives not even 5mins away and doesnt hardly see our kids but maybe once a month...shes also a very fake person and likes to spend time with her ex in laws instead of her own family! Sooooo freaking werid but they think she is the best person that walked on this earth and shes cleary not...her own brothers and sisters want nothing to do with her because of how she is...but she wants to always go around to her ex in laws my husbands grandparents and act like she does everything for us which is a complete lie ...oh and she acts like shes always around our kids to everyone when she sees them maybe 10-12 times a yr living 5mins away! They will go next door which is my husbands uncles house and talk to them but not once even walk across the yard to see the kids...well my issue is I am tired of them acting like the #1 grandparents in the world when they are being fake about everything to make themselves look good...another big issue I have with her is havin pics made of my kids ...she will tell me she wants to take them to get their pics made for me as for their bdays ( my babies are 3 & 22months) and I get it she is payin for them but when the photographer ask what wants to be done she tells them and or either say or or no before askin me so I have to butt in and say what I want and the poor person doin the pics doesnt know who to ask to do what...also when they go to load the pics she will sit down first and not leave me room to look and tries to have them delet pics without askin me if I like them and pics the most awful pics!....this last time I got up and left and didnt even pick out pics of my sons 3rd bday pics because i was not about to let her say they were for me and then me not even have a say so in my childs pics... she brings me pics a few weeks later and I thanked her but nothing I really wanted and she knows what i like...well I told my mom who does everything for us and who.does not do us like that that I had it because she likes to run to her ex in.laws and our family and give out.pics before I can which hurts my feelings because she wants to act like the prefect nana and that she buys everything for us which isnt true at all...I normally go in half on pics and have pics made myself...she always wants a CD and I get her one but like I said likes to hand them out before I can...its kinda like Im gonna do it before u kinda thing...shes always very immature for a 40yr old woman...well I just had pics made by ourselves and even asked her if she wanted a cd cause I always do the thanksgiving and christmas pics and every 6month pics aswell as have a lady come to take pics at their bday parties...I get a txt tonight askin when they were gonna be back I told her mon or tues but I want her to wait to see them for thanksgiving I did something special for everyone instead of greeting cards we normally do...she tells me to give her the password to view them and do not give them out to their great parents because she was doin something with their pics for Christmas and that we could hand them out Christmas....really? I just payed for these pics and did something nice and shes tellin me what to do? Like i said she wants to act like she does everything for them and thats just another way for her to do so....I do not do good with ppl that are fake and controlling...so should I just hand them out as planned like I told her? I dont want to upset the great grandmother considering she has been sick but am I not entitled to give out pics of my own children to whoever I want? This woman has been a nighmare for me even tryin to break my marriage up before and after havin her bosss daughter call and txt my husabnd! She always goes behind our backs and gives ppl pictures of our kids to my husbands real father who is not allowed the kids because he needs to straighten his life up...am I just crazy and need to let things go? I mean I havr forgave her obviously but u will never forget the things she has done to all of us...and when she gets mad at us she likes to throw up in our faces what all she has done for us which isnt nothing ...if anyone should get that credit it should be my mom which she took care of my husband when he lost his job for over a yr & they sure didnt give him a dime! My mom has even got my husband the job he has today that he has had for three yrs...Im sorry this is so long I just need to get it out so sorry if I sound crazy lol I do not talk to my husband about this stuff because its his mother ...so any advise will help even if u think I am wrong or right....Im just stuck at how to handle her without showing my ass! rpb -shanda
Posted on: Fri, 22 Nov 2013 12:25:28 +0000
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