Inbox: , i need advice mummies! But i want tootry, i want it to work, so here goes my oh (lgs dad) is winding me up the wrong way. He has no patience at all with our little girl. Im.constantly having to tell him not too shout at her, he even said he didnt like her the other day! Now my lg needs cuddling to sleep, if not she ends up in bed with me. I dont mind doing it, infact i love the bonding time and telling her stories etc too get her too sleep. Him on the other hand, will NOT, very rarely is he even asked but because he doesnt have the patience. He puts her the telly on instead. Now doing this causes several complications, it takes her out of her bedtime routine for one, 2 i dont mind her watching telly but it isnt there for bed time, its for entertainment + background noise if im cleaning etc, and 3 she stays up super late. Ive thought about taking the telly away so that he cant, but iys not fair too my lg. Why should my lg have her stuff taken away because of him? Im also due our second baby in 9weeks and im one of them thay would rather go alone from the start. + with how much hes actually doing, i feel like a single mum doing everything. I directly asked him too lie with our baby tonight while i had a bath, he said he would then put the telly on + left her shouting for me!! I wouldnt mind, but its not as if he lives a hard life, sits on his ass all day every day! He wonders why she wont settle for him, and hes tje one that she backchats, kicks, hits, bites etc! So my question is, how can i change this? Change him. It breaks my heart too hear him shouting at lo, esp when she adores him! But hes her dad! Charlene x
Posted on: Tue, 27 Aug 2013 21:43:14 +0000