Inbox question..... Why is dating so hard? I have asked a young lady out several times and by several I would say at least 12-15 times. Each time she tells me no. We have a good and cordial relationship with each other. We work together and at work we talk, laugh, sometimes sit down and eat together in the break room. She always laugh at my jokes and we share mutual compliments with each other. I dont understand what the problem is. Im intelligent, funny, handsome, tall, have my own home, make good money (she knows I have a job), and Im interested in her. This dating thing is new to me because I was married for 26 years. Her birthday was a few weeks ago and I got her some flowers and a card. She told me thank you and she appreciated the gesture, and then said the woman who win your heart will have a gem. Im confused by it all. Women say they want a good man, but here a good man stands, and shes passing me by. How can a woman laugh with me, compliment me, eat lunch with me, but still turn me down every time I ask her out? Of course I want your opinion, but I would really like to hear from the men more so than the women on this one. Thank you. ....................................................................... *Get 2 bottles of water and pass to the writer.* Gone head and quench that thirst for me... Im gong to keep this simple..... SHES NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU!!! Why is it that when a man gets turned down by a woman, he says she doesnt want a good man? Why cant it be that shes just not attracted to you or see you in that way? Something has to be wrong with her, right? It cant possibly be that youre not her preference, right? Of course not bcs then its would negate all of your qualities you listed above. Every woman is not attracted to every man, no matter how funny, intelligent, handsome, or good you are. And every woman is not moved by money. She laughs at your jokes bcs youre funny. She eats with you bcs you take lunch at the same time. She compliment you bcs maybe you deserve it. She talks with you bcs she might enjoy your conversation, it doesnt mean that she wants you. Every person that smiles at you or compliments you is not flirting with you or want to go out with you. Im going to assume that youre an older guy, being married that many years, so let me say that dating is a lot different now than then. Laughing at a mans jokes was a clue then. Now, it just means youre funny. Can I just be brutally honest here? You sound pushy and overbearing. Most importantly, it sounds like it has become more about getting her to say yes more than anything else. 12-15 times? Why would you need to ask a person out that many times before realizing that SHE DONT LIKE YOU? Anytime a woman says, the woman who win your heart.....What she is saying is a woman other than me. Sir, she dont like you, leave the lady alone and find a not her one. ........................................................................ OK family, What say you? Gentlemen, whatsoever can you say to help this man with this?
Posted on: Tue, 15 Jul 2014 02:29:32 +0000
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