Interesting thing to enter my head... With gay marriage in the gay community we are happy and we are seeing things through rose colored glasses. The thing we NEED to talk about that we havnt is the fact that we gay men especially over 40 are in a very tricky and dangerous place. Let me explain this, we have young gays that see the older as tickets to easy rides kinda like how girls would do when they lived in a small town and the guy they know was going in the service they went and got hitched and as soon as they could they got a baby then divorced to get benefits. Younger men know how to use and manipulate lonely older gay men that never had dating as children, nor came up with the internet but hit it in their early twenties, to enter a whore stage or to stagger to the world of you must be this and that to be talking to me online profiles, we also are seeing a ton of hustlers ie straight boys that know how to abuse and use men, and know how to flirt their way into their lives to get married then destroy them in courts, basically how women for many years dominated the circus that is divorce in regards to rewards, courts highly favored them and men now will have the same power women have had in regards to just taking someones world and stuff and rippping it apart so they wont have to work. We should have a real serious talk about looking at this issue, about how most of us are in the honeymoon phase seeing only lollipops and rainbows and then when our brothers and sisters get destroyed by lazy people bent or taking the easy route in life. we need to maybe have community programs to explain that it is ok for pre nups it is ok to marry and love but also to protect yourself and your family. What do you all think is this and issue you think their should be some attention on or should we just keep it quiet and look at those destroyed as victims of their own stupidity for falling in love. Is it more of an issue with the age difference or is it a generational issue.
Posted on: Wed, 31 Jul 2013 21:37:02 +0000