Is anything odd going on astrologically that would explain bizarre communication fails this week? Curious, Ive had a few incidents lately where people like to tell me a bunch of concerns/problems/things theyre struggling with and then react really negatively when I make what I consider are reasonable suggestions to fix them - as I always do - and I figured they would accept me as a helpful friend with good suggestions. Instead, ive been told suggestions are unwanted, and Im a little passive aggressive when I try to make light of certain situations or illustrate a point. Why do people share problems if they dont want input in the first place? Is the onus on me to hear their problems and stifle my response as a good friend or should people have the ability to hear well meaning advice without reacting negatively? Both, obviously are helpful. Just looking for input. Thoughts? Is this the stars or am I just a jerk? Be honest ;-) Also, is being passive aggressive a bad idea? Its more polite than just shooting down someone while still getting the point across that you might think theyre on the wrong path, no? lol.
Posted on: Thu, 15 May 2014 19:36:01 +0000
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