It is always better to RESOLVE a relationship than to DISSOLVE it...... Namaste my dear Friends/Devotees we meet this very beautiful Saturday Morning as we bring you excerpts from the most beautiful powerful meaningful Program SHANTI VANDANA by none other than our very own Pt KRISHEN RAMDEEN. Today is a very auspicious day in the Hindu calender. Its GURU PURNIMA .......its the full moon of many moons.....pay respect to our Guru Jis , they remove the darkness by the light of knowledge.... This Mornings topic STANDING BY & STANDING FOR OUR FAMILIES ESPECIALLY IN TIMES OF TRIALS & TRIBULATIONS.... Today many homes, families are being destroyed...maybe the attitude may be wrong...we must dig our heels deep into the ground if we want to have a good family... God is allowing us in every moment to do our part to take a strong stance to protect our family...God will help us to have greater relationship with our parents, our children...... There are children who are not on speaking terms with their parents, or brothers and sisters have their differences...whether its family demands or whatever it is, the reality is these are blood relatives where the bond is not there.... As Pundit Ji said these children may go to a Pundit or an astrologer and say they want to get married, they found a perfect match, that the two are so compatible..BUT.... every person is different...we must nurture, appreciate the differences in every relationship...no two people are compatible.... When there are two people exactly the same...there is no need for one! If that concept is true ...any relationship you are in, those differences will exist! We have to make SACRIFICES, have to OVERLOOK sometimes, make COMPROMISES in order to make the relationship work...... Very strong words to digest as in each relationship, in order for it to be a healthy one these words need to be put into practise.....its POWERFUL!! Dont let that disagreement get to your heart...let the disagreement be from the neck up...if the heart is disturbed the emotions are troubled......WE CANT CHANGE THE PEOPLE WE CAN CHANGE ONLY OURSELVES..... we have a responsibility to guide, to suggest from love.... Your brothers, sisters, daughters, sons etc.....also have a responsibility to share their thoughts......sometimes so many relationships are destroyed because they think they are right!!!! Reconsider those differences that the other will listen and change......in a home no two children will be the same , just like the fingers are all different but....are important to function the hand......in the same way whatever relationship we are in , the differences are healthy, BUT we need to manage it well if not its a recipe for disaster..... Everyone of us whether we have a small house or a big house, if you were to give your home a name, in the same way you give your child a name, what would it be? THE STRUCTURE IS REALLY A HOUSE, BUT WHEN THE STRUCTURE IS FILLED WITH OM it becomes HOME...... would it be Shanti Bhawan, house of peace, place of entertainment would it be a place of disturbance......everyone experiences stress, we all have disagreements but we must not allow it to happen...we should stop playing petty games..... Pt Krishen Ji shared a beautiful story There was this older gentleman, well respected, his wife developed Alzheimers...her condition grew progressively worse, she didnt recognise her husband any more...he had a nurse to take care of his wife. One day he made a decision, he told the University board, he was the President, he would resign to take care of his wife. The members didnt want him to resign and one of them even said your wife doesnt even know you any more why should you resign? He said SHE MAY NOT KNOW WHO I AM TODAY.....I KNOW WHO SHE IS..... SIMPLY AWESOME!!!!!!! Such powerful words!!!!! If you are a responsible party in any relationship and you are committed it is okay to have a difference but it doesnt mean you should entertain toxic thoughts into your minds....... Do read this carefully and let it sink into your thoughts.. As Pt Krishen Ji concluded this mornings SHANTI VANDANA he left us with some very deep thoughts A reminder to all fathers, mothers, every individual have a responsibility to those in our lives, we must take those responsibilities seriously....if you really want to be blessed, dont just fight for your family but....fight for someone elses family also.....there are so many ways you can help a child......step back and reflect on your family, on the things that may be going well and not going well.....make a reaffirmation TO STAND UP AND STAND BY YOUR FAMILY.... Dear Devotees/Friends as you go about your busy Saturday routine, do let these messages soak into your thoughts and put it to practise. Our whole life revolves around relationships be it at home, at work , at social gatherings... we are linked in some ways to all. Lets change our mindset and make these relationships a healthy one....do have a beautiful blessed day! Until tomorrow do be safe. SITA RAM!!!
Posted on: Sat, 12 Jul 2014 11:25:31 +0000
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