It is every brides dream to have a perfect wedding possible. I am not an exception. I have wished to have a kind of wedding that I could tell to my future children and grandchildren. June knew all about it. He worked hard to give me the kind of wedding I wanted. His family backed him up and gave all they could to make our wedding successful. My family coordinated well with Junes family and the support from both sides were truly overwhelming. Yet, despite the efforts of both parties, we did not expect that bad thing could still happen. To everyones dismay, it occurred at the reception. For this, I would like to sincerely apologize to everyone especially those who got hungry and never had a chance to eat at the dinner proper. Weve planned everything from the small details to the big ones as early as we got engaged. June, as generous as always, together with his family were all out in giving the grandest wedding that I could ever imagine. It was almost perfect until I was told that theres no more food to serve. I was even shocked when I found out that only few had been given food to eat. I understand that everyone is hungry considering the weather and the duration of the ceremony and program prior to the dinner proper. I know some were disappointed after having not given even just a small portion of food to fill their empty stomachs. I, myself, could not believe that this would happen because from the original plan of preparing for 400 people, we asked them to prepare for 500 people. They said they can do it. We asked them how much would it cost. They give their price. We did not ask for any discount. All was agreed then. So what happened really pained me. I was hurt because it seemed that our one year long preparations were all put to waste. I am still hurt because it never occurred to me that a relative whom I considered to prepare food for my big day thinking that I could be of help would be the caused of this major lapsed. I am even more hurt because as of this post, I never heard even just a kernel of an apology and regret from her as if nothing had happened. I felt bad the moment I found all of these. And I still feel bad until now. BUT I was never mad. I am not angry at all. Although I understand the rage of my family and Junes family to the one who prepared our food. They felt humiliated. They felt betrayed. We paid in full long before the occassion to motivate them to give the best service they have but were treated otherwise. Who would have felt good about it? I just hope you would not do the same to your future clients if every you will still have. Thank you June for always being there for me. For telling me not to blame myself because we knew it was never anyones fault, at least not from the both sides of our families. He said it was sad that it happened, but the important thing is we got married. Thats all that matters. He assured me he would not care about what other people would say to the unexpected circumstance during the wedding because he knew both sides did their very best for the success of the occassion. Were all just victims of the unprofessionalism of some people. He is always this kind and understanding. And he always makes me feel better. These keeps me to still be thankful after the mess. For sure, our journey to forever will be such a joyful ride. I was never wronged for giving you all my heart and soul. I love you very much! An overflowing and heartfelt thanks to Junes family from Lolo and Lola to aunties and uncles who are all now our ninongs and ninangs, cousins and relatives, and of course to Mommy Cely and Tatay Eudie for your all out support to give the best wedding possible for me and June. You just made me realized how well loved June is and you have shown me your willingness to extend that special love to me being the love of his life. I truly appreaciate all your efforts and will always be grateful for your unconditional love and support for the both of us. I am so lucky because I married the best guy that any girl dreams of. I am luckier because he has such a wonderful family who all have big hearts. Of course, as June is well loved by his family, my own has shown the same for me. I know I am not a perfect daughter, sister and tita, but they always make me feel how special I am and how much they are willing to sacrifice and give just to make me happy. Inay and Tatay, you are the best parents that I would still wish to have if I will be asked to choose the kind of parents I want for the second, third up to nth time around. Thank you for your unconditional and selfless love. Thank you for raising me to become a family centered person with God as the center of everything. I am what I am now because of you. To my sisters, brother and my pamangkins, thank you for everything. Thank you for being my friends, protectors and saviors. Thank you for always shouldering the fights you know I could not stand alone. Thanks for pampering and spoiling me. Thank you for the patience to all my childishness. You guys really rock! And to all our friends, relatives and visitors who stayed with us despite what had happened, thank you for your understanding. You just shown us how well loved June and I are. We will make up with you guys. Maybe not for now, but we will sure do in the near future. And again, sorry for the inconvenience that the dinner party had caused you. God knows, we all want you to leave with smiles and filled stomachs that night. Sorry we failed to do that. We will take it as a lesson for our future occassions. Above all, thank you Lord for all the blessings you keep on showering us. Our wedding may not be perfect, but we did feel your presence, guidance and blessing. Indeed, June and I will still treasure this very memorable day of our live. Maraming, maraming salamat po!
Posted on: Tue, 20 Jan 2015 12:24:03 +0000
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